D.C., with all due respect you continue to conflate cultural decisions with pragmatic decisions. Hence my reference to causality.D. C. Bear said:Oldbear83 said:See, there you go again. Ignoring anything that does not agree with you.D. C. Bear said:1. Convince myself of what?Oldbear83 said:You seem to be working very hard to convince yourself. I don't see that argument swaying anyone else here, though.D. C. Bear said:I most certainly see a great deal of difference between five and 15.Oldbear83 said:You see no difference between 5 and 15, then?D. C. Bear said:It was not uncommon in our own county a relatively short time ago for people to be married at ages that violate today's laws. I suppose we are only of those "degenerate (in terms of technology, violence and disease) cultures." At the same time, age of consent and legal marriage age vary now among different states and have varied greatly over time.Oldbear83 said:I disagree, and you need look no further than human history to see the difference. Polygamy was common even among reasonably advanced cultures for much of human history, while pedophilia has only been common among degenerate (in terms of technology, violence and disease) cultures.D. C. Bear said:I am making no such argument.Oldbear83 said:Apparently you do not believe in objective morality.D. C. Bear said:Doesn't look like you quite get the point either.Oldbear83 said:I think he does. Age of consent is a real thing, and morally not in the same universe as same-sex attraction.D. C. Bear said:BaylorJacket said:
Are you seriously comparing a pedophile and someone who likes the same sex?
I don't think you quite get the point.
And "age of consent" is a social construction, much like the idea that people should only be married to one person at a time.
That's your opinion, not at all what everyone agrees is the case.
You seem to be arguing that a Libertarian position is the same thing as a Libertine position.
If so, you need a better dictionary.
You say that "age of consent" is a "real thing." It is no more or less a "real thing" than "marriage is between one adult man and and one adult woman" is a "real thing."
That is, humans learned early on that there is a direct cost to their culture for allowing certain behaviors, so it may reasonably be said that there was objective rejection of such behaviors aside from personal preferences.
You may deny it as you do here, but to sell the argument you'd have to ignore causality.
Age of consent, again, is no more or no less a "real thing" than "marriage is between one adult man and and one adult woman" is a "real thing," yet many will accept one and deny the other.
Age of consent is indeed real, and while it may have changed a bit over time, it has always existed in sustainable cultures.
I also see a difference between men and women and a couple vs. a number greater than two.
The same arguments that bring society marriage between two men or two women also bring us polygamy and what I would classify as child sexual abuse: you can't judge who someone loves. They were born that way. "Love wins!" etc. etc.
2. I don't expect people to be swayed by logic and reason when they have already decided what to believe with emotion.
You may have a future in the Biden Administration!
Should I have the right to marry more than one woman at the same time or not? (Polygamy) Should I have the right to be married to the same woman as another man at the same time or not? (Polyandry). Should I as an adult male have the right to marry a 13-year-old girl? Should I as an adult male have the right to marry a 13-year-old boy? My answer to all of those questions is a resounding "NO!"
Of what, again, do you think I am trying to convince myself?
That which does not kill me, will try again and get nastier