LIB,MR BEARS said:
As everyone has said, congratulations! But I'm going to add another 1000 or so layers of accomplishment on top of your 35 years. I don't know your story but I'm guessing in 35 years of sobriety you have also supported countless others in their own struggles. The positive ripples caused by your choices have changed lives in places and ways you know nothing about.
High five!!!
Thank you, sir! There have been a few. When I go to AA meetings, they tend to listen when they hear the years. Since there are usually a lot of 'newbies', my favorite bit is "People, places and things" - things that trigger your drinking. At least in your first year, avoid the folks you drank with, the places that might trigger you like the bars or clubs, and items that might set you off such as a beer mug, driving past a liquor store where you got your booze, or similar. You can always re-assess at the end of the year, but I mention that the longer you avoid these things, the less susceptible you are to
Mine started with a phone call from Hollywood Henderson who talked me into leaving my job back in 1989, working on the cruise ships, making 100k as the Chief Purser/Hotel Manager. We were in a dry dock in San Diego getting our forepeak replaced (that's a whole 'nother story). The ship had two phone lines coming in, one on the bridge and the other, to my suite. The phone rang and it was Thomas. I had spoken with my parents about my drinking and considering doing something about it. They knew that I had crossed paths with him before when his wife worked at the Playboy of Dallas Club when I was there, and that he had been sober for a few years, somehow they got hold of him. The phone rang and there was this voice that I knew. He said, "This is Thomas". Anyway, I took a couple of days off and went to his place in Costa Mesa and we talked for a while.
To make a loooong story a bit shorter, I left a really nice paying job and went to 4 months of rehab in Tuscon and then Prescott, AZ. Got out, moved back to Dallas, and started looking for another job...
At Thomas's condo in Costa Mesa, that's his prize 65 Chevy pickup. This was later 1989. Real men can wear pink!
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