Coke Bear said:
J.B.Katz said:
I still have fond memories of the time I was reading a children's book my first-grader brought home from Catholic school about the Children of Fatima and realized that, despite top-toe-y language, it was about children who engaged in self-flaggelation and other self-torture because they were instructed to do so by the Virgin Mary.
Know what I didn't do after realizing what I was reading? Rush to the school and tell them I thought they should remove this book from their library.
https://www.newmanministry.com/saints/our-lady-of-fatima#:~:text=The%20three%20children%20started%20penance,performed%20other%20works%20of%20penance.
I have a hard time believing that a children's book was describing self-flaggelation and self-mortification (which is not torture).
I don't doubt that our BVM ask them to perform acts penances. Lucia, Jacinta, and Francisco all decided which acts of self-mortification to engage and were not instructed to do specific acts by our BVM.
Something tells me that this was another not-so-subtle dig at religion and the Church.
Why is it so hard for you to admit that your post was a misleading? Do you wish to troll others on this forum?
So is the description of the self-torture--self-starvation and denying themselves water (symptoms of what's now recognized as an eating disorder) and other self-abuse on the "newmanministry.com" site, which is a site for Catholic students promoting the Catholic faith, inaccurate?
Here's a description of "self-mortification" from an online dictionary that clearly states it DOES include physical self abuse:
https://www.vocabulary.com/dictionary/self-mortification"Most self-mortification is practiced by deeply religious people. In Christianity, self-mortification is called "mortification of the flesh," and it ranges from self-denial like not drinking alcohol or fasting to
hitting one's own shoulders and back with a whip or strap"Starving or hitting yourself is self-torture,whether you choose to acknowledge that or not, and denying yourself water, expecially on hot days, can be fatal.
Apparently you either didn't really read my post or you didn't understand its point, which is: While I find these practices repellent and dangerous, I understand that, at that time these chldren lived, they were viewed as holy. (It was also OK to burn or drown witches at this time; I don't condone or support that either.)
However, I did not want my own children to think these behaviors were good or acceptable or in any way. My solution was to find another book to read with my children. I didn't ask that the book be removed from the school library, believing that other parents, like you for instance, could make that choice for themselves.
Finally, these children were 7 and 8. Do you really think they were capable of "deciding for themselves" to self-torture? If a parent or guardian allowed children that age to engage in this sort of behavior in this day and time without seeking mental health care for them, they'd be in danger of losing custody and justifiably so.
Why is it so hard for you to acknowledge that, like most churches, the Catholic Church has a troubled history of abuse of children like this because it is a human institution?