I've never lived in Dallas and know nothing about these churches.
But there are as many failed and disgraced pastors in small churches, rural and urban. Pastors are flawed individuals like all of us, and they happen to have one of the most stressful and difficult jobs. And, yes, like many other professions, religion sometimes attracts frauds. None of this is limited to megachurches or churches or religion in general.
I've moved 10 times and joined 10 different churches, some small, some mega, and currently small-to-mid. I've attended an urban church where I was in the small minority and a rural church where there were few minorities and everything in between. They all have had their strengths and weaknesses. I've been fortunate that none have had major scandals, and I am confident all were led by good, well-intentioned, albeit imperfect, pastors.
My prior two churches were mega - one up north and one in Texas - both the largest churches in their area. They were perfect for us and our kids. So much to offer. But, frankly, that is backwards, as is much of the discussion on here. Rather than criticize or even evaluate, we should focus on what we are giving, what we are doing to contribute to the body.
And also, on what our churches are doing. One of the positives of a megachurch is the resources they have to help those in need. The two I attended, for example, had missions all over the world. They had urban missions here in the U.S. They had ministries/missions for recovering alcoholics/other addictions, divorcees, the unemployed, veterans, and more.
And, JR, we sometimes disagree, but I loved your post about Reunion and did some digging. Looks like a great church and I'll recommend my daughter and son-in-law (fairly new to Uptown) give it a shot. But I don't understand the shot at suburban pastors/churches. Lord knows suburbanites need Jesus as much or more than others.