I'm not saying it only relates to birth control, but it was a major factor. The advent of the pill decoupled sex and procreation, and was followed by the sexual liberation movement, followed by the body autonomy movement and abortion. After that came easy divorce, and voila. It was a sexual revolution for sure, but many of the outcomes have had lasting negative results. STDs naturally tried to put a buffer on it, but we've modernized our way around that even.Mitch Blood Green said:ATL Bear said:Mitch Blood Green said:ATL Bear said:
Using contraception isn't a sin. Using contraception to live a sinful life is. Unfortunately I am willing to admit since its advent the latter has created family and social crisis.
I don't understand. Seems to me, lack of birth control has created the problems y'all speak of.
Birth control prevents abortions and out of wedlock births.
Really? We have more abortions and out of wedlock births by an incredible multiple compared to before birth control.
What birth control created was a fundamental altering of sexual mores. And as a result we have everything from the aforementioned abortions and out of wedlock births, to broken families, accepted promiscuity and deviancy, and a sexualized culture that impacts our youth at a younger and younger age. Yes, it's prevented some unwanted pregnancies along the way, but at what cost did decoupling sex and responsibility have on our society? Incalculable.
None of that has anything to do with birth control. It's all the change in society. The cause is far more complicated than whether I wore a condom or not. In my parents' generation, pregnant women married the guy and sometimes suffered through a horrible marriage due to a lack of resources and opportunity.
Today, she's foolishly a "strong" single mom." At times, she's a 4th-generation single mom. No shame in having 4 kids by 4 men. Birth control would have made those women more desirable to the eligible men they want at 30.
From what I see online, there's a huge fissure between men and women that I don't know how to solve. From what I see, more people are choosing not to marry. That's where I'd start. I have several successful marriage-eligible nephews who are avoiding marriage and avoiding American women.
As to the modern relationship challenges, what is to be expected after decades of cheapening sexual intimacy and long term commitment?

