Johnny Bear said:
bear2be2 said:
Johnny Bear said:
Alf said:
Bug a boos makes about as much sense as what actually came out of his mouth. He couldn't just say naysayers?
If a white analyst would have made the same mistake it would be the lead story on CNN and been summarily dismissed from the job.
And had that been the case, no number of apologies and pleas for forgiveness would ever be enough - the person would automatically be toast.
I've never understood the frustration some white boomers experience at the hypothetical prospect of being restricted from saying racially insensitive or demeaning things.
If a white person had said this on air or in public, it would say something completely different about their inner feelings and character. This was a really poor weird choice by Robert, obviously, but no one really believes he looks down on Black people. Unless it's truly a tongue-tie situation, racial slurs don't slip out of the mouths of non-racist white people. That some of you struggle with this concept is truly baffling to me.
What's truly baffling to me is how badly someone like you can miss the point entirely.
It's exactly 0% about frustration over being "restricted from saying racially insensitive things". I am offended by racially insensitive things being said by anybody (regardless of their race) directed at another race (regardless of which race the insensitive comment is being directed at). The point is about the societal double standard that treats white offenders differently from black ones. In RGIII's case I'm sure this was a true slip of the tongue which he subsequently clarified. He will be forgiven - as he should be - and likely nothing more will happen - as it also should be. The point is RGIII should be treated the same way if he was a white guy that had a slip of the tongue, but most people with at least half of a brain know that wouldn't be the case. And that's the point - the double standard.
It's not a double standard because it's not the same offense. And anyone who doesn't understand this is either daft or being intellectually dishonest.
This isn't a difficult concept. You can -- and likely do -- say things about your family and friends you would never let others say. That's because when you say it, it's understood and acknowledged that it's coming from a place of love.
It's not possible for a white person to use a racial slur in a respectful or reverential way. If you're using it in any context, you're in the wrong because people from those communities have made it clear there's no good context for a white person to use them.
A decent person accepts that and moves on without any need to use our defend the use of a word that wasn't in their vocabulary to begin with.