Thanks for your post. If we think logically about the nature of sin, (I chuckle typing that, because sin is NOT logical, but I digress.) we sin that some sins are less than others. For instance, lying is a sin. Me lying about something taste of something that someone cooked, to spare they're feelings, is a lie (bearing false witness). If I lied in court (bearing false witness) and sent a person to prison for life, that would be a grave sin.Oldbear83 said:
Thanks for your post Coke Bear, but I have two problems with that statement.
First, the concept of separating sins into 'mortal' and 'veinal' certainly looks to be an invention of the RCC, and dangerous one. Sctipture warns that any sin can lead to destruction, and while there is a specific kind of sin mentioned by Christ, he called it 'unforgiveable' so there is no coming back from it/
In 1 John 5:16, he states that "there is sin that is NOT deadly." That would be venial sin.
In Matt 5:19, Jesus says,
"Whoever then relaxes (breaks) one of the least of these commandments and teaches men so, shall be called least in the kingdom of heaven; but he who does them and teaches them shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven."
That gives us a look at venial sin. We still remain "in the kingdom." Jesus shows an example a few verses later in 5:22
"… whoever says 'You fool!' shall be liable to the hell of fire."
Then he punctuates with a further example of mortal sin in verses 28-29
"But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and throw it away; it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell."
I realize that few here will accept the CCC (Catechism of the Catholic Church); however, I post what it says about mortal & venial sin for a better understanding of what the Church teaches us about the differences:
[1855] Mortal Sin destroys charity in the heart of man by a grave violation of God's law; it turns man away from God… by preferring an inferior good to him. Venial sin allows charity to subsist, though it offends and wounds it.
[1861] Mortal sin… results in… the privation of sanctifying grace, that is, of the state of grace. If it is not redeemed by repentance and God's forgiveness, it causes exclusion from Christ's kingdom and the eternal death of hell…
[1862] One commits venial sin when, in a less serious matter, he does not observe the standard prescribed by the moral law, or when he disobeys the moral law in a grave matter, but without full knowledge or complete consent.
[1863] Venial sin weakens charity… and… merits temporal punishment. Deliberate and unrepented venial sin disposes us little by little to commit mortal sin. However, venial sin does not break the covenant with God. With God's grace, it is humanly reparable. "Venial sin does not deprive the sinner of sanctifying grace, friendship with God, charity, and consequently, eternal happiness."
I understand your point. I would agree that some people may treat confession like this.Oldbear83 said:
Also, I really worry when someone treats reconciliation with God as if it were on the same level as getting your car serviced.
'Oh, I have a sin, I better go to confession and get that fixed'
Trivializes the matter to me and I have seen a lot of people who seem to treat their sins that casually. It's also the problem I have with Once Saved Always Saved; it leads some people to imagine that as long as they are 'in the club' it does not matter how they speak and act.
That way lies great peril.
I have a very good friend who, while living in Alaska, would go out every weekend and commit a particular sin. She would go to confession, received absolution, go to communion, and do it all over again next weekend.
After several weeks of the same thing, the priest refused to give her absolution, stating that she wasn't truly repentant. He told her to come back in a few weeks when she had truly thought and prayed about this particular sin and return with a contrite heart. It broke her and she left in tears. She realized what she had been doing. She wasn't able to receive the Eucharist for those weeks. After a few weeks, she came back with a firm purpose of amendment and she was able to break out of that cycle and avoid that sin forever.
Going to confession helps us cleanse the soul of mortal (and venial) sin and it also provides us graces to help to refrain from sinning.
I go about once a month. I want to go about every two weeks, because I need those graces. I can tell when I haven't been to confession, I'm a little shorter with my family or I may snap at them more. After my confessions, I always receive this new feeling of clarity. Why, because sin makes you stupid. Once my soul is clean again, I feel better equipped to fight those spiritual battles.