That mindset by whites is still predominantly alive in the south. I've over heard way too many conversations here 2017 that were blatantly racists. Whites felt they could talk that way because I was white. It was unguarded.What kind of folks are you hanging with.
NONE I know. Or maybe folks would never talk that way around me cause they know I might go off on them. My childs 7th grade class has 12 Hispanic, 11 White and 11 Black kids. It was difficult to find a Christian School like this, they are usually not very diverse, but East Fort Worth has one, and because I do not want him hanging around folks like you describe I jumped at this school, very diverse and everybody is treated the same. I want him to know people by the content of their character, not the color of their skin. I want to him to grow up with close friends of every kind. The way I was brought up.
I feel for you cause you must hang with some disgusting old white people. I do emphasize with poor black folks, and poor hispanic folks, and poor white folks who start behind the 8 ball. I grew up in an area that was behind the 8 ball. Thankfully these folks don't have your mindset and CAN achieve anything they set their mind on. Is it harder, sure it can be, I didn't have a teacher in HS that could teach the last two math classes I tried to take, so you are already behind some others. But, the only one that can stop them, is them.
I have a challenge for you, get out of your personal prison, and look at your black and brown brothers as your equals. They are.
You are the one separating "them and us" by the color of their skin.
By the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ we shall be saved.