. And I think you need to have honest conversations with blacks. I'm ok. And telling me to see a counselor is gaslighting.Edmond Bear said:Waco1947 said:It's foolish for a white guy to say "racism is not as pervasive as pastor thinks." You are not black and simply cannot experience it. But the issue is white privilege which for the 10th time is simply being white. Others whites treat whites differently than blacks.Edmond Bear said:pitchman said:Edmond Bear said:Waco1947 said:are you white? If yes then of course it's not your cultural experience but it is the experience of African Americans every single damn day - not just 60s 70s.Edmond Bear said:Waco1947 said:My "anecdotal" experience in each and every case was reflective of a larger cultural context of racism and segregation. It was my experience in a racist and segregated society and for blacks it was devastating real.Edmond Bear said:Waco1947 said:. For instance I was born in Waco at Hillcrest. If a black child was born in Hillcrest it was probably in the segregated wing. When that black child started school it was in a segregated school and it stayed segregated until I graduated in 1966. We did not receive the same healthcare or education. When I rode the bus downtown blacks were in the back of the bus. I went to eat at El Chico's on the circle and it was whites only. I shopped at Gibson's and there were two water fountains Whie and Colored. At age 12 my family took a vacation to New Orleans and I saw billboards that said MLK was a communist Agitator. I went to an all white Methodist church and the black Methodists went to black churches. That mindset by whites is still predominantly alive in the south. I've over heard way too many conversations here 2017 that were blatantly racists. Whites felt they could talk that way because I was white. It was unguarded. Senator Tim Scott a black senator from SC has been pulled over 7 times and treated rudely by white officers. White privilege is real. But you will never see it until you empathize rather than argue. .90sBear said:Waco1947 said:and you would guess wrong. Re read what white privilege is and not what you think it is. Can you do that?Ghostrider said:
I'm guessing 47 knows about 3 black people
You still have not defined what you think the privileges are or if you think people of other colors also have privileges based upon their skin color.
To take your anecdotal experience and claim it represents everyone else's experience is a complete lie. You clearly have racist friends. If you hang around them then...
I do not have remotely the same experience as you and have not heard people talk like you in my presence in 30+ years. But, I don't claim that my personal experience represents everyone else's.
That's awesome for you. But by extending your personal experience to a "larger cultural context" you are stating that is also my experience.
That's a lie pastor.
In your response, you keep saying "was" which I can only assume reflects your personal experience in the 60's and 70's. I'm not arguing that experience, there are plenty of other people's anecdotes to support you.
I am absolutely stating that the atmosphere from the 60's and 70's does not exist today. Your description is not my experience and frankly you cannot state that your personal experience is more relevant than mine or anyone else's.
I'm just asking you to quit lying about my experience.
I'm not sure how you don't understand that you are stating an opinion as if it is a fact. And, your opinion is based on your own very limited experience in a very narrow part of the country.
I work with a variety of people; black, asian, indian, and on and on that don't experience what you describe. I run with black friends who own businesses or are in corporate management that don't experience what you describe.
You cannot take your little slice and assume that it is common for all others...especially since you apparently have very racist friends that you hang around. Frankly, that fact should make you step back and re-evaluate your own viewpoints.
If you are trying to correlate your personal anecdotal experience with what you see on the news or social media, you are just experiencing Confirmation Bias. You have a pre-conceived notion based on your anecdotal experience, see similar "experiences' on the news or social media, and select the ones that confirm your pre-existing bias.
You state that it is the experience of African-Americans every day but you should consider that this is the experience of African-Americans around you and your friends.
Look, I'm not saying that racism doesn't exist. It clearly does. I'm saying it is not all-encompassing like you are trying to describe by asserting that 'white privilege' exists. I would also add that racism exists for all races on all other races. To single modern whites out today as if there is something different about white people is asinine.
Edit: Let me walk something back. It is not so much racism that exists as it is cultural bias. I don't understand cultures that I have no experience with and my head/confirmation bias fills in the gaps with fears. That is common amongst all cultures and all people.
Cultural bias plays a part, I am sure. However, I'm not sure how you can state that your minority friends have experienced no rascism. How do yo know? Really how could you know?
My Columbia masters and law graduate black BIL could argue that his wealth does nothing to erase his differening bones and pigment in a majority Western European descendant nation, but we can't help a natural survival instinct to stay with more Europeans as we feel safer amongst those that look like us. Look at our country and where we live and work. You can't stop "rascism" on a subconscious level, although we can all make independent judgments on individuals. So yes we can get along, I'm just saying it is genetically difficult for us.
Of course . as much of the "races" we discuss his n here are actually Caucasian(arabs, east Indians as long as you do not go too far south, and yes, Ethiopians), but I harp on and on about that aspect.
Do your friends not talk to you? I've asked about it. Of course, I would hear about it.
Again, I'm not saying racism does not exist and I'm not saying my friends and co-workers have not experienced it. I am saying that:
1) is that it is not as pervasive as the pastor keeps noting
2) it may be as pervasive for him in his experience and I am saying that he cannot extend his experience to everyone
3) it goes both ways - as a white guy I have been discriminated against...and I don't mean in a general government sense but in a personal setting. But again, it's not pervasive
4) you people must live and work in some suck places. I feel bad for you that you are stuck in the 60's.
"Other whites treat whites differently than blacks."
I gotta say, that's a pretty sick statement and for most of us patently false. Pastor, I'm being honest here and mean this with love, you should find a counselor that can help you work through your issues.