I don't seek friendship in internet forums about Christianity. Friendships should be sought in real life, not in our digital selves. We are here to discuss ideas and truths. None of us, as far as I know, know each other in any meaningful way personally.Oldbear83 said:
I can be friends with those who show respect and courtesy. When one drives away posters and only seeks to win arguments, to the point we see here, is not seeking friendship nor wisdom.
Neither do I seek to "win arguments", I merely say what I believe to be true. You do too. So does everyone who's posted here. The problem as I see it is that people (like you) react badly when their "truth" is countered and they don't have a solid answer, so they feel threatened. Defense mechanisms start to go up, and then the name calling begins.
Can you show me an instance where I wasn't being courteous or respectful to anyone who wasn't being courteous or respectful to me first?
And how do you know that YOU aren't the one who drove away posters, and who isn't being courteous and respectful? Haven't you been attacking me instead of discussing what I've been saying? The problem I see with you is that you are more interested in internet "friendship", validating your beliefs, and having everyone going home happy with their beliefs and insights, rather than promoting the truth even if goes against what people believe. Like when you absolutely refused to say that putting one's salvation in the hands of Mary is blasphemous, heretical, and unchristian because you didn't want to offend Catholics. Not telling someone how they are believing in evil, destructive things isn't love for them, it is hate. Neither is that promoting wisdom, that is promoting darkness. So that is MUCH worse than anything you perceive as being discourteous or disrespectful. I can't think of anything more disrespectful and unloving than knowing someone is in danger, and not telling them.