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BusyTarpDuster2017 said:Who's "accusing"? Wasn't it YOU? 50% was YOUR number. I offered an explanation that is no different than what the Bible offers: "They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us. But they went out, that it might become plain that they all are not of us."Realitybites said:Quote:
You and I both know that young kids raised in an evangelical church environment will say and do what the other kids are doing, as they would in any other environment. I don't understand why you insist that it's a "false doctrine" because people will profess something of themselves that really isn't true. That's human nature. Peer pressure and acceptance is a huge motivating factor at that age.
If you're professing a doctrine that is forcing you to accuse 50% of those who are coming to Christ, obtaining eternal life, and having eternal security of bearing false witness because of peer pressure, it is probably time to rethink that doctrine.
Was John "accusing" as well?
Do you know of a source that might indicate the percentage that return within say about 5 years?Realitybites said:BusyTarpDuster2017 said:Who's "accusing"? Wasn't it YOU? 50% was YOUR number. I offered an explanation that is no different than what the Bible offers: "They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us. But they went out, that it might become plain that they all are not of us."Realitybites said:Quote:
You and I both know that young kids raised in an evangelical church environment will say and do what the other kids are doing, as they would in any other environment. I don't understand why you insist that it's a "false doctrine" because people will profess something of themselves that really isn't true. That's human nature. Peer pressure and acceptance is a huge motivating factor at that age.
If you're professing a doctrine that is forcing you to accuse 50% of those who are coming to Christ, obtaining eternal life, and having eternal security of bearing false witness because of peer pressure, it is probably time to rethink that doctrine.
Was John "accusing" as well?
The Bible passage you are misapplying is 1st John 2:19. It refers to (little a) antichrists, that is false teachers. It is not referring to youth group kids who pray the sinners prayer, are baptized, told they are saved and subsequently deny Christ and lose that salvation.
And 50% isn't my number (it's actually not even correct). The correct number is 75%, and it is from your online catechism citing the Barna group. " Two studies conducted by both the Barna Group and USA Today found that nearly 75 percent of Christian young people fall away from the faith and leave the church after high school."
BUDOS said:
Do you know of a source that might indicate the percentage that return within say about 5 years?
I have been away on vacation where internet is not good. I hope to get back to the discussion I left hanging withing a day or two, so I can learn a bit more about the topics we were on.
Hmmm, perhaps some of us are making this a bit more complicated than I think is necessary. For young children before their cognitive development of maturity to be accountable for their actions and its consequences I would think that they will be in heaven, or at the least not hell. Similar for those adults with similar mental development/disabilities. I'm open to discussion on that subject as those are just me attempting to be rational, as I am not aware of any relative scriptures.Coke Bear said:BUDOS - I too appreciate your honest asking of these questions.BUDOS said:
I would say there are several references to entire households being baptized. It was even common for three or four generations to live in the same house. There's never any reference to an age limit, so it seems likely that children were being baptized.Do you believe the child needs to understand what baptism represents, &/or understand what believing in Christ and being a Christian means? If an 8 day old baby is baptized is that the same as an 8 year old? Is there an age/point of accountability? Should there be? Can a 5, 6 or 8 year old routinely understand? I don't ask these questions to start one of those word fights where we try to bury with each other in non-Christian conduct. I would just like your thoughts and questions on the subject, even scenarios. Such a discussion might help me better fine tune my own thoughts so can then evaluate how they might or might not fit within my core religious beliefs.
I'll try to piggy-back onto Sam's and Realitybites excellent answers.
Catholics (Orthodox, Lutheran, Anglicans, Methodists, etc.) believe in the doctrine of original sin.
Original sin isn't something that we necessarily have. It's something we lack. We lack salvific grace. When we are baptized, we are infused with (salvific) grace, our souls are indelibly marked, and we become adoptive sons and daughters of God.
You ask a great question about the 8-day old verses the 8-yo. When we look at Matthew 9:1-2, we read ...
Jesus stepped into a boat, crossed over and came to his own town. Some men brought to him a paralyzed man, lying on a mat. When Jesus saw their faith, he said to the man, "Take heart, son; your sins are forgiven."
We Catholics (Orthodox, Lutheran, Anglicans, etc.) believe the faith of the parents (guardians), like the faith of the paralyzed man's friends, are enough for Jesus to forgive our sins.
For the Jews (males), it was circumcision 8 days after birth that made them parts of God's family. This is no longer required. Now ALL (male and female) can be part of God's covenant.
St Paul references the link between circumcision and baptism in Col 2:11-12 -
In him you were also circumcised with a circumcision not performed by human hands. Your whole self ruled by the flesh was put off when you were circumcised by Christ, having been buried with him in baptism, in which you were also raised with him through your faith in the working of God, who raised him from the dead.
One of the earliest debates in the Church was not IF to baptizing infants was proper, but whether they should even wait the 8-days. Infant mortality was much higher then. The Church knew the importance of getting someone baptized.
Jesus. apostles, not the Bible ever said that baptism was symbolic. On the contrary, it is VERY specific in stating that baptism washed away sin and saves you ...
1 Pet. 3:21 - Baptism, which corresponds to this (referring to Noah, the ark, and the water), now saves you, not as a removal of dirt from the body but as an appeal to God for a clear conscience, through the resurrection of Jesus Christ,
Acts 2:38 - And Peter said to them, "Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins; and you shall receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.
Please keep asking great questions. You may not agree with what the Church teaches, but you will hopefully understand what the Church teaches and why it does certain things.
God Bless!
Ouch! I'm not sure it's getting any better; especially with other research revealing a declining faith; however perhaps other, similar research is being done, including why they came back. We might be able to use that in our evangelistic efforts.Realitybites said:BUDOS said:
Do you know of a source that might indicate the percentage that return within say about 5 years?
I have been away on vacation where internet is not good. I hope to get back to the discussion I left hanging withing a day or two, so I can learn a bit more about the topics we were on.
According to Barna, 17% or so return after having kids.
Enjoy your vacation!
It's not misapplying the verse at all. The principle is this: people can make false proclamations about themselves regarding their faith, and the evidence of it is that they end up leaving the faith. If anything, you're under-appyling the verse. Clearly, it is possible for people to say they are Christians, when they really are not. I'm not sure why this is even controversial. I'm also not sure how it is that you don't seem to know that kids are heavily unfluenced by peer pressure, and Christian youth groups are not an exception. Saying that this is "accusing" people and therefore it is sufficient cause to abandon doctrine (presumably OSAS) is as about as ridiculous of an assertion I've heard. You're really reaching for an argument against it.Realitybites said:BusyTarpDuster2017 said:Who's "accusing"? Wasn't it YOU? 50% was YOUR number. I offered an explanation that is no different than what the Bible offers: "They went out from us, but they were not of us; for if they had been of us, they would have continued with us. But they went out, that it might become plain that they all are not of us."Realitybites said:Quote:
You and I both know that young kids raised in an evangelical church environment will say and do what the other kids are doing, as they would in any other environment. I don't understand why you insist that it's a "false doctrine" because people will profess something of themselves that really isn't true. That's human nature. Peer pressure and acceptance is a huge motivating factor at that age.
If you're professing a doctrine that is forcing you to accuse 50% of those who are coming to Christ, obtaining eternal life, and having eternal security of bearing false witness because of peer pressure, it is probably time to rethink that doctrine.
Was John "accusing" as well?
The Bible passage you are misapplying is 1st John 2:19. It refers to (little a) antichrists, that is false teachers. It is not referring to youth group kids who pray the sinners prayer, are baptized, told they are saved and subsequently deny Christ and lose that salvation.
And 50% isn't my number (it's actually not even correct). The correct number is 75%, and it is from your online catechism citing the Barna group. " Two studies conducted by both the Barna Group and USA Today found that nearly 75 percent of Christian young people fall away from the faith and leave the church after high school."
BUDOS said:Ouch! I'm not sure it's getting any better; especially with other research revealing a declining faith; however perhaps other, similar research is being done, including why they came back. We might be able to use that in our evangelistic efforts.Realitybites said:BUDOS said:
Do you know of a source that might indicate the percentage that return within say about 5 years?
I have been away on vacation where internet is not good. I hope to get back to the discussion I left hanging withing a day or two, so I can learn a bit more about the topics we were on.
According to Barna, 17% or so return after having kids.
Enjoy your vacation!
I know when I was at Baylor, the first semester I observed several who reduced &/or stopped attending church; however, sometime during the second semester I noticed that some started back up, and some others during their sophomore year. Most moved off campus by the end of their sophomore year.
You're on the right track with your line of thought for those who have not reached the age of accountability or those with diminished mental capacity. The Church entrusts them to the mercy of God.BUDOS said:
Hmmm, perhaps some of us are making this a bit more complicated than I think is necessary. For young children before their cognitive development of maturity to be accountable for their actions and its consequences I would think that they will be in heaven, or at the least not hell. Similar for those adults with similar mental development/disabilities. I'm open to discussion on that subject as those are just me attempting to be rational, as I am not aware of any relative scriptures.
I guess this is where you (or anyone) has to ask themselves, "What does baptism do?" If you believe it's JUST a symbol, then I understand your point. But NO where in the bible does it say that baptism is JUST a symbol or a nice thing to promise we'll take the kids to bible school.BUDOS said:
As I may have stated earlier, I often feel uneasy when I see young children, especially prior to their teen years, coming forward stating that they believe and are ready to be baptized. I can grasp the concept of youth baptism, especially as a dedication/declaration by the parents to raise their child within a Christian environment, and/or as a "phase" in which the individual goes through an education/confirmation of what being a Christian involves and its significance.
One could argue the heath merits of circumcision, but I don't believe that was God's intention.BUDOS said:
As for why a male child was circumcised on the 8th day, well, there is a sound medical reason for that, and it is one that they could not have known at the time.
What are your thoughts?
You do realize that a few of us have been having some positive interchange, although we may not totally agree on everything, or at least to the same degree. I think Paul had this type of exchange in mind, rather than the heated put-downs we so often find ourselves. As for the eighth day, I agree i that it was not only a medical "thing." I just think it shows just a tiny glimpse of why God had His people do/not do certain things. This was one which no medical person could have known why God instructed that it be done on the 8th day instead of the 7th or 10th.Coke Bear said:You're on the right track with your line of thought for those who have not reached the age of accountability or those with diminished mental capacity. The Church entrusts them to the mercy of God.BUDOS said:
Hmmm, perhaps some of us are making this a bit more complicated than I think is necessary. For young children before their cognitive development of maturity to be accountable for their actions and its consequences I would think that they will be in heaven, or at the least not hell. Similar for those adults with similar mental development/disabilities. I'm open to discussion on that subject as those are just me attempting to be rational, as I am not aware of any relative scriptures.I guess this is where you (or anyone) has to ask themselves, "What does baptism do?" If you believe it's JUST a symbol, then I understand your point. But NO where in the bible does it say that baptism is JUST a symbol or a nice thing to promise we'll take the kids to bible school.BUDOS said:
As I may have stated earlier, I often feel uneasy when I see young children, especially prior to their teen years, coming forward stating that they believe and are ready to be baptized. I can grasp the concept of youth baptism, especially as a dedication/declaration by the parents to raise their child within a Christian environment, and/or as a "phase" in which the individual goes through an education/confirmation of what being a Christian involves and its significance.
What does Jesus say in John 3:5?
Jesus answered, "Very truly, I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God without being born of water and Spirit.
From the earliest Church fathers, 2nd century forward, it has always been believed that Jesus is requiring baptism in this verse.
Catholics (Orthodox, Lutheran, Anglicans, Methodists, etc.) believe that baptism washes away original sin. It makes us part of God's adopted family. It makes an indelible mark on our soul. Baptism fills us with the Holy Spirit.
Baptism is SO important, that it was the very last thing that Jesus say to do in Matthew 28:19 in the Great Commission:
Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit
He didn't say, "Go, write a book!"One could argue the heath merits of circumcision, but I don't believe that was God's intention.BUDOS said:
As for why a male child was circumcised on the 8th day, well, there is a sound medical reason for that, and it is one that they could not have known at the time.
What are your thoughts?
Circumcision served as a mark of belonging to God's people. It served as a covenant with Abraham. It was about identity and belonging and obedience and commitment.
Baptism is now part of the New Covenant with God. Our souls are forever marked. (It's also a whole lot less painful than circumcision. ) And this covenant was just for the Hebrew males, it is for all the world, male and female, slave and free, Gentile and Jew.
Are you saying to stay off unless we choose to respond directly to your personal statement?xfrodobagginsx said:
Please take the time to read this first post if you haven't yet
xFrodo puts that in from time to time, because he believes the first post is important.BUDOS said:Are you saying to stay off unless we choose to respond directly to your personal statement?xfrodobagginsx said:
Please take the time to read this first post if you haven't yet
I'm not upset, I just want to know, exactly what type of responses you are wanting.
I suppose that I'm somewhat confused by your statement here.BUDOS said:
You do realize that a few of us have been having some positive interchange, although we may not totally agree on everything, or at least to the same degree. I think Paul had this type of exchange in mind, rather than the heated put-downs we so often find ourselves.
BUDOS said:
My bad! I apologize. I was just trying to acknowledge that some of us were having some positive exchanges of information. Including areas we were willing to admit that while we had some differing views we didn't attempt to demean, humiliate or use harsh language in the process. To me it was refreshing, and more of what I expected.
Respect is a two-way street. Is it being respectful to dodge questions and then call someone a "Pharisee" because they don't like where it's going? That's the part of the respect equation that too many here are forgetting.xfrodobagginsx said:BUDOS said:
My bad! I apologize. I was just trying to acknowledge that some of us were having some positive exchanges of information. Including areas we were willing to admit that while we had some differing views we didn't attempt to demean, humiliate or use harsh language in the process. To me it was refreshing, and more of what I expected.
That's a good thing to have differing views and be respectful
BUDOS said:
Here's some more information; preliminary information indicates that he may have had mental health issues.
Police identify Michigan church shooting suspect as local man who attended with his mother
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/police-identify-michigan-church-shooting-suspect-local-man-attended-mo-rcna214440
It sounds like he's saying salvation by faith alone. And all this talk of salvation by grace.... but at what point, though, does it turn from grace into a matter of personal performance (taking up one's cross, sacraments) being a part of the "process"? Because that's the view that's being espoused by you and many others here - two competing concepts (grace and works) in the same breath. It just isn't tenable. How does this work?Realitybites said:
Theology Didn't Heal Them Jesus Did
The Scandalous Simplicity of Salvation: When Love and Reverence Matter More Than Doctrinal Precision
JUN 26
Imagine you're flat on your back, completely paralyzed. Your friends cut a hole in the roof and lower you down with ropes to the feet of a teacher you've only heard rumors about. You didn't come for a theology lectureyou came to walk again. And the first words out of His mouth are: "Your sins are forgiven."
That man in Capernaum never recited the Nicene Creed (or anything comparable to it). He didn't clarify whether Jesus had one will or two. He didn't outline anything that resembled the Definition of Chalcedon. All he had was helplessness, and hope in the Healer. And Jesus, seeing his faith, forgave him. Just like that.
Picture a woman weeping at a dinner party, washing Jesus' feet with her tears and hair. The room recoilsisn't He aware of what she is? But Jesus looks at her, not with disgust, but with divine tenderness. "Your sins are forgiven." Did she articulate precise Christology? No. She just loved much.
Zacchaeus, a tax collector in a tree, couldn't parse the theological details of the hypostatic union. But he scrambled like a child just to catch a glimpse of Christ. And when Jesus dined with him, Zacchaeus didn't quote the theological traditions of his forefathershe just repented of his past sins and gave generously to the poor. And Jesus said, "Today, salvation has come to this house."
None of these people had the kind of systematic theology you and I might take for granted. But they had something better: desperate, clumsy, wide-eyed faith. The kind that crawls to Christ when it can't stand. The kind that weeps when words run out.
St. John Chrysostom talks about the thief on the cross, and Christ's promise of Paradise, "addressing a thief who knew nothing of difficult teaching."
This isn't lowering the bar. This is lifting our eyes away from ivory towers and onto the torn, forgiving hands of Christ.
The thief on the cross didn't take a Christology class. He just said, "Lord, remember me in your kingdom." And Jesus said, "You shall be with me in Paradise." That's the scandal of grace. It's not that doctrine doesn't matterit's that grace doesn't wait for our vocabulary to catch up.
Jesus is the heart surgeon. He doesn't quiz you on anatomy before the transplant. You don't need to know how to explain His divinity before He saves you. All you have to do is be still, trust the hands holding the scalpel, and let Him operate.
Truth matters. Doctrine matters. But the Shepherd isn't waiting for you to pass an exam. He's looking for the bruised, the broken, and the hopeful. So even if your theology limpsgrace still runs.
2025 Fr. Joseph Gleason
Rostov Veliky, Russia
Wait - this happened at YOUR church?xfrodobagginsx said:BUDOS said:
Here's some more information; preliminary information indicates that he may have had mental health issues.
Police identify Michigan church shooting suspect as local man who attended with his mother
https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/police-identify-michigan-church-shooting-suspect-local-man-attended-mo-rcna214440
I was in the Church when it happened. Had it not been for the brave security men, I would have been dead, along with 150 others.
The short guy in the picture is me...
https://www.wnd.com/2025/06/sitting-ducks-gunman-shoots-up-sunday-church-service/?fbclid=IwY2xjawLIV8dleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHkU3Vm6xBgaj7EdPa1yo5TLMIDRpPC225JnH9u28NWkGJjgoD2XfTP7yNrjH_aem_98DZtrlTJOxj8a-6wpE8nA
BUDOS said:Ouch! I'm not sure it's getting any better; especially with other research revealing a declining faith; however perhaps other, similar research is being done, including why they came back. We might be able to use that in our evangelistic efforts.Realitybites said:BUDOS said:
Do you know of a source that might indicate the percentage that return within say about 5 years?
I have been away on vacation where internet is not good. I hope to get back to the discussion I left hanging withing a day or two, so I can learn a bit more about the topics we were on.
According to Barna, 17% or so return after having kids.
Enjoy your vacation!
I know when I was at Baylor, the first semester I observed several who reduced &/or stopped attending church; however, sometime during the second semester I noticed that some started back up, and some others during their sophomore year. Most moved off campus by the end of their sophomore year.