TexasScientist said:
People pray hoping for supernatural intervention or influence over events or circumstances over which they have little or no control. The efficacy of prayer is psychological only.
No. Many of us pray simply to thank God for any number of wonderful things we see and experience throughout the day. I stop and thank God for a sunset or my kids' smiles or a cool breeze. Pretty much anything man didn't/couldn't make. I pray most often because I am grateful. The second most common prayer for me is for forgiveness. Third is likely patience and ability to accept things I can't change. None of those things require supernatural intervention, except what was a priori...but some do require faith.
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"Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you." -1 Thessalonians 5:16-18
Do we also pray for intervention? Yes, of course we do. But it's hardly the bulk of prayers for most of us, just like the bulk of conversations you have with your mother or father here on earth probably aren't about asking them for money (unless you are the kind of guy who lives in their basement.)
Prayer is about relationship. It's about expressing thanks, offering apologies, asking questions and just sitting with or listening to the other party, far more than it is about endless requests for some kind of intervention. The notion that God is some kind of Genie there to grant wishes (or He is evil for not doing so) is nonsense and the root of much of the misconceptions about religion.
Try being grateful to God without asking for anything but perhaps forgiveness. Give it a week. You will find you are far less self-centered and much happier. You aren't an accident of chance. You are fearfully and wonderfully made.
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Psalms 139: 13-16 "For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance (; GOLEM); in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.