Coach Aranda's call for unity

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San Diego Bear said:

curtpenn said:



I agree with most of what you say, but struggle with "our system has been teaching us all that black skin is threatening". Don't think it is really "our system", just inherent human nature since the beginning. Which makes it doubly difficult to address. Sad times.
Racism in American is contingent--we had a choice. In peace and non-judgment, I beg you to read Jemar Tisby's, The Color of Compromise.
Just reading the synopsis, reviews, and comments, pretty sure there's little of interest or that I didn't already know. FWIW, when I was first starting my own business 30 years ago, I thought it was important to "make a difference". Had a few black employees along with several Hispanic employees. Actually helped a couple of the black guys open bank accounts, get auto insurance, and even had the company cosign on car loans. Always paid for health and dental insurance, too. Nevertheless, the loans ended up in default and the guys unable to consistently just show up for work. Too many weekends drinking and traveling to casinos in Shreveport. Too many debts to multiple baby mommas. Limited sample size, I know, but I don't think it's asking too much for people to exercise some restraint and show up reliably. Granted, this is not a problem unique to "persons of color". Just saying in my experience there's a reason bias exists. There's generally a kernel of truth at the core. I am not responsible for whatever may have happened in other times or places, and neither are you. We are all accountable for ourselves alone.
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Timbear said:

People want honesty, so, someone tell me why National Black leaders and prominent Dems never speak to the younger Black Community about Responsibility, Accountability, getting an Education and Hardwork? They talk plenty about Victimhood. The young Black culture is dominated by music, clothing styles and language that is abhorrent to many in the Adult, educated White Community. Before anyone wears a t-shirt saying some group matters, they need to go out and make sure that they do all they can for Their own life to matter.


Had a really interesting discussion on this topic recently. The hip hop culture/ ideology is shaped by the music industry, record labels, and marketing campaigns. Who do you think owns the vast majority of those businesses and profits the most in selling and shaping that culture? I don't have any actual data, it was just a question posed to me that caused my to reconsider.
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Far too much of American culture is shaped by perverts in Hollywood: music, film, etc. Their values are not the values of the American people--Americans of all ethnicities.
“Incline my heart to your testimonies, and not to selfish gain!”
Psalm 119:36
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BaylorBears_254
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I see it like this...Whites will NEVER know what it's like to be in a Black Man or Women's shoes to even understand just a littttllle bit.

Honestly i could go deeper and use our very own players who were accused of rape, but i'd rather not go deep into that.

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BaylorBears_254 said:

I see it like this...Whites will NEVER know what it's like to be in a Black Man or Women's shoes to even understand just a littttllle bit.

Honestly i could go deeper and use our very own players who were accused of rape, but i'd rather not go deep into that.


. OK. So what does that mean? Walk it through.
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Nor will I know what it's like to walk in your shoes or you walk in mine. It irritates me that anyone assumes to know what it's like to walk in my shoes. I've had a lot of serious struggles the last few years and yet my closest friends assume everything has been great.
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So answer this for me guys...

What about the "Black" in "Black Lives Matter" offends you so much or leads you to disagree?

Because when you guys try to counter and say "All Lives Matter", what exactly are you meaning by it? A part of me feels like you just don't like the fact that it says "Black", which proves the point.

If you truly feel like there isn't a white privilege in this country...you need help.

The KKK and the other racist clubs walking around spreading hate, but the police protects them, while people who are PEACEFULLY protesting get pepper sprayed and etc...Come on guys. The proof is right in front of you.

Dylan Roof shoots up a church, the cops walk him out and feed him, George Floyd does nothing, and gets knees to the neck and dies.

People discuss that Dylan has mental issues which lead him doing what he did, but people dig up mugshots and past incidents of a innocent black man who was killed for NOTHING.

So yea, you may be going through things in life, but I can promise you that being black in America is far more challenging...

Don't even get me started on the white woman cop who walked into another mans apartment because she was "tired" and shot and killed him...Yet she got a slap on the wrist. Reverse the roles please and tell me would the justice system had done the same.

As for guys like Shawn Oakman...he'll never get his life back...

I salute those from different races sticking up for the black community, they understand and are far more open minded.
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There is no excuse for any injustice that takes place, whether it is a cop who kills a perpetrator senselessly or Shawn Oakman falsely accused so that his professional career is destroyed. We live in an evil world full of sinners. And there is no question that blacks still suffer from discrimination and are sometimes the victims of horrendous crimes committed by dirty cops. Thankfully, those are rare. However, most black crime victims suffer at the hand of black criminals or abortionists. The dirty cops certainly deserve to have the book thrown at them, regardless of their ethnicity or that of their victims, and that is generally what happens. It does not help that in some of these sensational instances, the facts of the case reveal the BLM & media lies (Ferguson, for example). A cop doing his/her best to protect the public who happens to kill a criminal in the line of duty is not automatically a criminal and deserves the same rights as everyone else (presumption of innocence, due process, etc). I have a problem with any injustice, no matter what form it takes or who is doing it.

I also have a problem when one group is singled out as nothing but victims and another is treated as monsters and all share in the guilt of a few. That is racism and it's dishonest. We all know the truth is more complicated. And how can anyone justify punishing every member of a group because of what one person did?

The anarchists have plenty of p.c. phrases to justify all kinds of outrageous, unjust, and unconstitutional demands. But some radicals make false accusations against whites as a whole & their desire to punish some for the color of their skin makes them no different than the white supremacists. I also have a problem with the rewriting of history as the NY Times did with their 1619 Project propaganda campaign, all to justify a dangerous agenda. And now in Minneapolis, there are politicians--peoples' elected representatives!!--demanding the police be defunded. Are these people insane? Do they not realize that without police, the result is anarchy in which everyone becomes a victim? To make matters worse, we have the antifa fascists with their own brand of anarchy, apparently hijacking some peaceful protests and turning them into riots.

Summation: My problems with all of this are the dishonesty, the anarchy, the injustices perpetrated in the name of "justice" (it will not come from rioting & looting), and the entire concept of collective guilt.
“Incline my heart to your testimonies, and not to selfish gain!”
Psalm 119:36
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You say all this to say "it will not come from rioting and looting", but tell me this...

What happened to MLK, a peaceful protester? Murdered

What happened to Malcolm X, a protester who was more for fighting back? Murdered

My thing is, no matter what happens, someone will ALWAYS have a problem with the movement.

Peaceful protest? Yall will shout out, it's doing nothing and still treat them as if they aren't important.

Rioting? Call them thugs

Kneeling? Call them out because your "great great grandfathers fought for this land; yet blacks fought as well for this land to m gain their freedom, but were STILL DENIED it.

I'll end my discussion here tho, no matter what these movements do...they'll be labeled something and the plot will be twisted over and over again.
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BaylorBears_254 said:

You say all this to say "it will not come from rioting and looting", but tell me this...

What happened to MLK, a peaceful protester? Murdered

What happened to Malcolm X, a protester who was more for fighting back? Murdered

My thing is, no matter what happens, someone will ALWAYS have a problem with the movement.

Peaceful protest? Yall will shout out, it's doing nothing and still treat them as if they aren't important.

Rioting? Call them thugs

Kneeling? Call them out because your "great great grandfathers fought for this land; yet blacks fought as well for this land to m gain their freedom, but were STILL DENIED it.

I'll end my discussion here tho, no matter what these movements do...they'll be labeled something and the plot will be twisted over and over again.
So true. All of the above. And both JFK & RFK were also murdered in the same decade (RFK just a couple months after MLK). But it was King's peaceful protests, not the violence of the Black Panthers or anyone else, that produced real change and success for the Civil Rights movement--finally.

There are no easy answers. The world is filled with injustice and it's not going away until Christ comes back to rule over the earth. But I don't think the criminal behaviors of the mob (any mob) will solve any of America's current problems, racial or otherwise. The rioting & looting & murders (a black cop was murdered in NYC--her life certainly mattered) only make the situation in America worse, not better.

Funny how everyone seems to have forgotten the pandemic and how the media--and health care "experts"--no longer think social distancing is important.
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Many talk like this is still 1860. Blacks have made tremendous strides. Opportunity is available to any person willing to work hard and apply himself. Rioting. Looting and Burning will only further divide Americans.
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What people don't seem to realize is that the establishment response to the Civil Rights Movement was a failed "War on Drugs," whose misguided policies are still harming poor communities to this day, a massive spike in incarcerations (we lead the developed world in incarceration rate, despite having a violent crime rate that is roughly equivalent), with black males disproportionately bearing the brunt of the increase, and the arming of police forces in military faahion, the likes of which has not been seen in the rest of the world.

So, yes, we live in a fallen world. But let's not scapegoat real problems with racism and a system that is rigged against people of color by throwing up our hands and saying it's the natural byproduct of a sinful world. That's factually true, but it disregards meaningful action that can (and is, in the form of protests and police reform) take place in modern American society. We can be better, and we must.
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I appreciate that we are having this conversation without devolving into personal attacks....that's refreshing.

There are indicators in every direction that on average blacks are not having equitable outcomes compared to whites in America. Whether it be financial comparisons, academic achievement, housing accommodations, health outcomes, incarceration rates, upward mobility, life expectancy, etc.

Would anyone disagree with that?



I hope that all of us would agree that those inequalities presently exist.

So then the question becomes why do these inequalities exist now that Jim Crow era laws no longer exist and legally blacks have the same freedoms as everyone else in the country.

My fear is that some mentally reconcile this dissonance by either consciously or subconsciously believing that blacks are inferior. If your thoughts are why don't "they" just quit doing drugs....why don't "they" quit having fatherless homes....why don't "they" quit shooting each other.....why don't "they" just work harder. To me that line of thinking is....blacks are now totally free....the fact that they are having disproportionate outcomes to whites is because they aren't trying hard enough. If that's where you are mentally I don't see any other way to categorize that thinking other than thinking black people are inferior.

If on the other hand you recognize that all of these disparities still exist despite Jim Crow era laws having ended 60 years ago but you view blacks as an equal race to whites you have to consider other factors are at play. This is where I am. Blacks having been brought here as slaves and held down as second class citizens for 400 years has created lasting stigmatizing consequences that have not been overcome yet. When the Jim Crow era ended the black community was left with nothing starting at the bottom. Systemic racism has created conditions where achieving equal outcomes is extremely difficult.

If your thinking is similar to this you can't help but feel empathy for the plight of African Americans in this country and understand that Black Lives Matter and white people have to play a big role in bringing about true equitable outcomes.

If there is another way to mentally reconcile these obvious disproportionate outcomes that African Americans experience please explain it to me.
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So, yes, we live in a fallen world. But let's not scapegoat real problems with racism and a system that is rigged against people of color by throwing up our hands and saying it's the natural byproduct of a sinful world. That's factually true, but it disregards meaningful action that can (and is, in the form of protests and police reform) take place in modern American society. We can be better, and we must.
Nobody did that. It's not scapegoating to point out facts and you miss the point: the solutions to these problems are not going to come through riots & looting. They are unlikely to come from anything posted on these boards.
“Incline my heart to your testimonies, and not to selfish gain!”
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jbbear said:

boognish_bear said:

It confuses me how some do not seem to have empathy for the African American community. The totality of their experience in America has been horrifying.

I think some believe that once they gained legal equal rights everything was equalized and now it's "their" fault for not getting out of poverty without acknowledging as a community they were set so far back by the history of slavery and second class status.

Take two minutes to listen to MLK talk about the notion of the African American community lifting themselves up by their boot straps.




Just out of curiosity, can you explain how the Jews survived and have subsequently thrived after atrocities way worse than anything suffered in this country? I'll give you some hints.....family structure and education.
Sure: most Jews are white. We are speaking of the United States, not Europe. If they chose to move, the Allied powers gave Jewish people their own country. Some families were paid reparations. Stateside, Jews weren't segregated to "separate but equal", most people can't tell if someone is Jewish or not, Jews weren't red-lined by the financial industry. There is and never was a glass ceiling that so many women and minorities experience in corporate America. To say Jewish people have better family structure and education than black people? Really??!!! There is evidence that the break-down of the family structured has hurt minorities, but education? All the above is directly the reason why: historically black people and black communities do not get the same resources as white communities-- both money and talent. Visit any small East Texas city and you see that today.

Let's bring it closer to home: a 30yr white guy whom you don't know is walking through your neighborhood. Do you really notice him? Can you tell what faith he is? Does it matter? Do neighbors post they see someone suspicious on Next Door? Do you double check your car locks? No,no, no, no and no. Now, let's say a 30yr black guy whom you don't know is walking through your neighborhood, is he attributed the same neighborly courtesies? I highly doubt it.

It starts at home and don't be the white guy who can point at a few black people they kinda know and assume you know how a black person feels.
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historian said:

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So, yes, we live in a fallen world. But let's not scapegoat real problems with racism and a system that is rigged against people of color by throwing up our hands and saying it's the natural byproduct of a sinful world. That's factually true, but it disregards meaningful action that can (and is, in the form of protests and police reform) take place in modern American society. We can be better, and we must.
Nobody did that. It's not scapegoating to point out facts and you miss the point: the solutions to these problems are not going to come through riots & looting. They are unlikely to come from anything posted on these boards.
You're right, most of us aren't in a position to effectively change policy, but you, me and we can do what we can to help undo the knot and if it is open discussion on a football board to change some hearts or perspectives, then that's a positive thing. It starts at home: in your house, in your neighborhood, in your office, at your kid's school and yes, even at church. You can sign petitions, you can volunteer to sign people up to vote, you can stop colleagues from making off-color remarks or jokes. It's the millions of small actions by millions of people that affect the system.
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Prior to the Great Society, the greatest source of strength for blacks in the U.S. were their families & their churches. In the years since, both institutions have declined dramatically leaving many blacks in desperate straights. I don't have all the answers but I am reasonably certain that solutions to anyone's problems are unlikely to come from the government.

Scariest words in the English language: "I'm from the government and I'm here to help."
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historian said:

Prior to the Great Society, the greatest source of strength for blacks in the U.S. were their families & their churches. In the years since, both institutions have declined dramatically leaving many blacks in desperate straights. I don't have all the answers but I am reasonably certain that solutions to anyone's problems are unlikely to come from the government.

Scariest words in the English language: "I'm from the government and I'm here to help."
that is 100% for sure no matter the race, religion or means. White people are not immune to this and we see it in spades with the movement of a ton of white millennials to socialist causes-- many of whom have money yet have no idea of how hard someone in their bloodlines worked to achieve it.
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historian said:

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So, yes, we live in a fallen world. But let's not scapegoat real problems with racism and a system that is rigged against people of color by throwing up our hands and saying it's the natural byproduct of a sinful world. That's factually true, but it disregards meaningful action that can (and is, in the form of protests and police reform) take place in modern American society. We can be better, and we must.
Nobody did that. It's not scapegoating to point out facts and you miss the point: the solutions to these problems are not going to come through riots & looting. They are unlikely to come from anything posted on these boards.
It's a common refrain from the Evangelical Right, so while nobody said it here, it is something that makes its way into public discourse often. Boognish did an excellent job of laying it out above. Either you believe that black people don't (work hard, try enough, have strong family values, etc.), which I'll go a step further than he did and call out that line of thinking as racist and evil, or there is something fundamental in the systems and institutions of our society that is holding people of color down, especially black people. That's it. Those are the options.

I was listening to a Professor of African American Studies at Princeton, and she made a good point. She said that while she in no way condoned looting or destruction of property, she did view it as a natural evolution, based on the lack of meaningful change brought about by previous means of peaceful protests. She said that historically, American society is shocked and outraged by documented instances of police brutality, but they don't actually call for change until property starts being damaged, which is pretty damning about the amount of worth we place on property relative to human lives.

When Colin Kaepernick peacefully protested by taking a knee, he was called a "son of a b****" by the sitting President and lost his livelihood. If his protest fell on deaf ears, at least this latest round is getting people's attention. I'm not endorsing looting or destruction of property, but I understand the frustration, particularly since peaceful protests of police brutality have been met with even more police brutality.
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You can't legislate MORALS and BELIEFS.....regardless of the classes you may force people to take.

Earn respect - and equality - -

1. Stop using the term African American. It's offensive. I don't call myself Spanish American
2. All you Professional Sports Stars, Actors, Rappers, etc....start using your platform to educate your communities to be better people. Stop victimizing your "followers" when you promote a $200 pair of tennis shoes. Rather, how about moving those jobs to their communities to make those products you promote?
3. Stop saying the N word in your music, movies, etc. If it's offensive for a non-black to say it, why isn't' it offensive for you to say it.
4. Men - if you are going to have sex - - USE A CONDOM. And stop screwing 4 different women and leaving them high and dry with kids.
5. Women - respect your man. Realize it's hard for them to do the right thing. Instead of telling them they will amount to nothing, how about supporting them.
6. Stop the abortions!! You have killed off 50 million of your own kind since the 70/s.....50 million!!!

All People need to respect All People. If you can't remember at 5pm each day what nice thing you did in the day - then you aren't being a productive member of the World.
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All good points and each positive step is helpful, even if in a small way. But we must be realistic about it.
“Incline my heart to your testimonies, and not to selfish gain!”
Psalm 119:36
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That's another positive step. I think the KKK in E. Texas pretty much died with the brutal murder at the beginning of the century and the swift justice that followed. IIRC, one of the guilty parties was executed--as he should have been.
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TrustTheProcess said:

You can't legislate MORALS and BELIEFS.....regardless of the classes you may force people to take.

Earn respect - and equality - -

1. Stop using the term African American. It's offensive. I don't call myself Spanish American
2. All you Professional Sports Stars, Actors, Rappers, etc....start using your platform to educate your communities to be better people. Stop victimizing your "followers" when you promote a $200 pair of tennis shoes. Rather, how about moving those jobs to their communities to make those products you promote?
3. Stop saying the N word in your music, movies, etc. If it's offensive for a non-black to say it, why isn't' it offensive for you to say it?
4. Men - if you are going to have sex - - USE A CONDOM. And stop screwing 4 different women and leaving them high and dry with kids.
5. Women - respect your man. Realize it's hard for them to do the right thing. Instead of telling them they will amount to nothing, how about supporting them.
6. Stop the abortions!! You have killed off 50 million of your own kind since the 70/s.....50 million!!!

All People need to respect All People. If you can't remember at 5pm each day what nice thing you did in the day - then you aren't being a productive member of the World.
A lot of valid points--especially #6, although I think the numbers are off, point well taken. Personally, I think all legislation is based upon a moral principle of some sort. Maybe it's a matter of semantics.

I think it can all be summarized by God's greatest commandments:

"You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself." Luke 10:27

It wouldn't hurt to throw in the Golden Rule as well:

"Whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets."
Matthew 7:12
“Incline my heart to your testimonies, and not to selfish gain!”
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TrustTheProcess said:

You can't legislate MORALS and BELIEFS.....regardless of the classes you may force people to take.

Earn respect - and equality - -

1. Stop using the term African American. It's offensive. I don't call myself Spanish American
2. All you Professional Sports Stars, Actors, Rappers, etc....start using your platform to educate your communities to be better people. Stop victimizing your "followers" when you promote a $200 pair of tennis shoes. Rather, how about moving those jobs to their communities to make those products you promote?
3. Stop saying the N word in your music, movies, etc. If it's offensive for a non-black to say it, why isn't' it offensive for you to say it.
4. Men - if you are going to have sex - - USE A CONDOM. And stop screwing 4 different women and leaving them high and dry with kids.
5. Women - respect your man. Realize it's hard for them to do the right thing. Instead of telling them they will amount to nothing, how about supporting them.
6. Stop the abortions!! You have killed off 50 million of your own kind since the 70/s.....50 million!!!

All People need to respect All People. If you can't remember at 5pm each day what nice thing you did in the day - then you aren't being a productive member of the World.


WHAT DOES ANY OF THIS HAVE TO DO WITH BLACKS BEING UNFAIRLY TREATED IN THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA???

This was legit just a bunch of nothing! As if Whites, Hispanics, and many other races don't do the exact same thing!

1. Blacks didn't CHOOSE to he called African Americans...

2. Last I checked, many HAVE done so, but are still ****ted on by white America.
Lebron himself spoke on these things long ago, and was told to "Shut up and Dribble". Kap took a simple knee and was cursed out by THE PRESIDENT. Oh boy, had Obama did such a thing or even acted any near the same as Trump, you know how many names he would've gotten called on TOP of what he was already called?

3. Music is music. A black person is NOT openly saying "Hey, I said it so you better go say it". Me personally, I've seen many whites, hispanics say it, so it not a matter of "saying it" but more so "HOW YOU SAY IT"

4. I've seen many black men be HELD from seeing their kids. It's not always the black man who leaves, it's who he chooses to have kids with. But as I said before, the same can be said for any other race. This isn't a "only black thing"

5. How about whites, hispanics, EVERYONE say this. You don't know how many times I've seen a black person who is fighting to do right be looked down on because the color of his skin and how he/she looks. So instead of saying black women, how bout you mention others as well.

6. What in the world does this have to do with ANYTHING when ALL RACES DO IT. A woman's body is a woman's body.
Yet, this is another argument of no matter whaaaaat, blacks will still get ****ted on for it. If the black girl brings these kids into the world, not ready to be a mother and allows him to grow up with no home training...she's a bad mother.
But if she makes the choice to kill a fetus that hasn't even grown, she gets ****ted on...again.

Instead of helping the problem in today's world, you showed that you'd rather not do anything at all, but judge the black race...
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jbbear said:

boognish_bear said:

It confuses me how some do not seem to have empathy for the African American community. The totality of their experience in America has been horrifying.

I think some believe that once they gained legal equal rights everything was equalized and now it's "their" fault for not getting out of poverty without acknowledging as a community they were set so far back by the history of slavery and second class status.

Take two minutes to listen to MLK talk about the notion of the African American community lifting themselves up by their boot straps.




Just out of curiosity, can you explain how the Jews survived and have subsequently thrived after atrocities way worse than anything suffered in this country? I'll give you some hints.....family structure and education.
Embarrassing post. Yes Jews were persecuted in the US and had to overcome that, but that doesn't mean their struggle is/was the same as blacks. I mean comparing the two when the per capita financial resources of the two communities alone is staggeringly inefficient and that doesn't include the level of trauma placed on each group as well as the inability of blackness to be hidden...
Noooo evidence for that, babeeyyy, just maaade it up.
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Timbear said:

Aren't African American athletes at Baylor treated well? Both men and women? Is it that Black students are not asked to be in Fraternities and Sororities? Can someone who's on campus answer that? All students at Baylor are at a great University, getting an excellent education, if they apply themselves. Will Pres Livingstone saying "Black Lives Matter" increase anyone's GPA? Of course not. No one is denied access to any Major, or building or opportunity or facility or conversation or place of Worship or whatever, at Baylor. The fact that some people decide not to donate once they've graduated is an individual decision. Don't put that on Baylor. Someone please tell us, where's the bias, prejudice and racism at Baylor? Honestly, no sarcasm.


Your first question is about African American athletes. That in itself indicates some type of stereotypes. Often people feel you must be an athlete to attend Baylor if your black. I literally has someone ask me if I was at Baylor via affirmative action once they found out I wasn't an athlete. Simply asked the idiot to go read up on the criteria for affirmative action. Now some Baylor folks will cheer African American athletes for 4 hours on Saturday only to call them thugs and dancing Nuggs and other stuff once they graduate. These same bigots where happy to cheer The KDs and Oakmans of the world when they were getting TDs and sacks for your favorite college team.

most blacks don't have much interest in joining the sororities and fraternities you speak of, we have our own historic Sororities and fraternities. However speaking of this, when was the last time our sororities and fraternities were ask to participate in Pigskin or the Baylor homecoming parades. Most of us understand there is Baylor and then there is Black Baylor. No we don't need Livingstone to embrace us to become successful. Most of us were destined to be successful regardless. Baylor was my stepping stone, but I was going to be a doctor rather I went Baylor or some other college. Like I said most of us don't have a connection deep enough to the school to care to donate.

Now for the racist stuff. 9/11 happened my senior year of high school. I remember my freshman and sophomore years Middle eastern people getting attacked on campus. My sophomore year a girl burned while wearing her traditional gourmets. Another was dashed with urine. Obama was elected and nooses were literally hanging from trees in campus. Baylor put out some bull**** statement only to later admit it was a noose. How about the "Cinco de drinking" party in 2017. Then there was Matt Walsh invitation to campus within the past year. If you don't think racist things happen at Baylor the. You have your head in the sand. Been gone from that campus nearly 15 years and I heard the Student president on the news use the term Black Baylor which let me know nothing has changes. There was all kinds of racial undertones on that campus when I was a student and apparently today's students are dealing with the same issue
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ImwithBU said:

Timbear said:

Aren't African American athletes at Baylor treated well? Both men and women? Is it that Black students are not asked to be in Fraternities and Sororities? Can someone who's on campus answer that? All students at Baylor are at a great University, getting an excellent education, if they apply themselves. Will Pres Livingstone saying "Black Lives Matter" increase anyone's GPA? Of course not. No one is denied access to any Major, or building or opportunity or facility or conversation or place of Worship or whatever, at Baylor. The fact that some people decide not to donate once they've graduated is an individual decision. Don't put that on Baylor. Someone please tell us, where's the bias, prejudice and racism at Baylor? Honestly, no sarcasm.


Now some Baylor folks will cheer African American athletes for 4 hours on Saturday only to call them thugs and dancing Nuggs and other stuff once they graduate. These same bigots where happy to cheer The KDs and Oakmans of the world when they were getting TDs and sacks for your favorite college team.




I hate to give Herman credit for anything....but he got it right here

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On May 31st, Chicago's heaviest day of rioting, looting and burning in memory of George Floyd, 18 were murdered in 24 hours. Worst day in Chicago in 60 years, and that was just in one City. Anyone want to guess who was doing the killing, and who was doing the dying? It wasn't the Police and the unprotected Business Owners. It was Black on Black slaughter. Not a word from City, State, and National Black And Dem leaders. Could this be why many Whites continue to be disrespectful, fearful and suspicious of the Black Community? So, after May 31st, many in Chicago and around the country want to defund the Police. Brilliant
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Once again, you're bringing up something that has NOTHING to do with anything lol.

Whites kill Whites more

Blacks kill Blacks more

Hispanics kill Hispanics more

You sir, are part of the problem. Your only argument you continue to use is "blacks are killing blacks"

What in the hell does that have to do with whites constantly stereotyping blacks on jobs, restaurants, walking in the street, of a neighborhood and so on?

If blacks killing blacks makes a white person "fear" such, maybe i should NEVER take my kid to an all white school, where school shooters are all WHITE, since i have so much fear in white people knowing that they're the ones doing the school shootings and killing kids...

See how stupid that sounded? That's how you sound with your statements Tim...
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ImwithBU said:

As a black man I will address this. This line of thinking is part of the problem. Fact is most races are killed by their own race. Whites kill whites. Blacks kill blacks and so on. It's proximity, it's the reason most investigations begin with the family and close family ties. Check the crime and FBI database if you need proof.

The problem with your argument is black on black crime is controlled by blacks. That's on us to clean up. Cops killing blacks is on cops. You can't tell the victim not to be a victim. you can't tell someone who is oppressed not to be oppressed, it's up to the oppressor to stop that situation.

And spare me with the all lives matter bull***** No one is saying all lives don't matter. But your life isn't the one at risk. Assume you live in a neighborhood and your house is on fire. The fire department shows up and sprays your neighbors home but does nothing for your home, because all houses matter. Of course your neighbors house matters but your neighbors house isn't on fire, yours is.

We have to have talks about how to keep your hands visible when pulled over. How to keep your registeration visible, how to keep your wallet visible. I'm a doctor riding around with a Baylor alumni plate because my family feels this lowers cops anxiety levels when they pull me over for driving a nice car while being a young black guy.

I don't expect you to understand because it's not your life. Just like I don't understand what a Muslim or Jew goes through in this country. But I don't understand how people always try to justify black people being Murdered by cops. This guy supposedly had a counterfeit bill or something of that nature. Yet you have a guy shoot up an entire church Killing several( yea he was white) and he gets handcuffed and his day in court.
I have listened and you make some excellent points. Thank you. You just keep riding with that Baylor plate on, ok. I'm sorry that you have to face this kinda fear. Bless you and your family.
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