"The poor you will always have..."
It seems no ones economy is going to be good enough. At least not yet.
It seems no ones economy is going to be good enough. At least not yet.
yes, I had parents. Started out in a two bedroom trailer in South Texas, shared a bedroom with siblings. Later i lived with my dad in Dallas area. Later moved in with my mom in central texas area. Went to church about a dozen times from birth to 21... half were funerals.Waco1947 said:So you had no parents? You simply showed up?Gruvin said:as a man of Christ, none of it is ever yours to claim sirWaco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
I am who i am by the grace of God and the choices I have made... i do my best to love my neighbor as Christ loves me, the one life you touch today could change the world tomorrow.
This is disgusting.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
Doc Holliday said:This is disgusting.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
No wonder you're radical. You have no idea how the real world works.
BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
No human being on this earth (whether they be black, white, Hispanic, Asian, etc.) had any control whatsoever over their birth or who their parents are. My parents both grew up in poverty and were able to rise above. My Dad joined and had a career in the Air Force and my Mom was a school teacher and then became a registered nurse. You would have been hard-pressed to convince either one of them that they grew up "privileged" just because they were born white.Waco1947 said:
Indeed "Because they lack humility or any self awareness. "
BBL
Self awareness that to whom and where we are born is a huge matters more than they can admit.
You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
Did you go to Baylor?Gruvin said:yes, I had parents. Started out in a two bedroom trailer in South Texas, shared a bedroom with siblings. Later i lived with my dad in Dallas area. Later moved in with my mom in central texas area. Went to church about a dozen times from birth to 21... half were funerals.Waco1947 said:So you had no parents? You simply showed up?Gruvin said:as a man of Christ, none of it is ever yours to claim sirWaco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
I am who i am by the grace of God and the choices I have made... i do my best to love my neighbor as Christ loves me, the one life you touch today could change the world tomorrow.
Got my first real paycheck at 16, everything since then has been on me...
I'm a communist for thinking someone willing to work should have a chance to not be poor?ShooterTX said:BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
OMG. You have no clue at all.
Take your Marx/Engels ******** somewhere else. If you love this communist crap, then why not just move to one of the $h1thole communist countries that agree with you. You have a nice selection of Cuba, China, North Korea, Venezuela,.... take your pic. I'm sure we could take up an offering for a one-way ticket for your sorry ass. We will also pay to have your citizenship revoked, so you will never come back to our capitalist society again. My goodness you are sick. If you continue to believe the crap you are spouting, then you will never amount to anything in life. Go away and take your anti-American, loser ******** with you.
I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
Your "America First" ideals quickly lose their meaning once you admit your America is only for people who agree with you.ShooterTX said:BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
OMG. You have no clue at all.
Take your Marx/Engels ******** somewhere else. If you love this communist crap, then why not just move to one of the $h1thole communist countries that agree with you. You have a nice selection of Cuba, China, North Korea, Venezuela,.... take your pic. I'm sure we could take up an offering for a one-way ticket for your sorry ass. We will also pay to have your citizenship revoked, so you will never come back to our capitalist society again. My goodness you are sick. If you continue to believe the crap you are spouting, then you will never amount to anything in life. Go away and take your anti-American, loser ******** with you.
You and your Bud, Waco, seem to be a whole lot more about privilege than hard work. Reminds me of ole Barack's famous quote "you didn't build that!"BrooksBearLives said:I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
So I'm a bad person for thinking hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You and your Bud, Waco, seem to be a whole lot more about privilege than hard work. Reminds me of ole Barack's famous quote "you didn't build that!"BrooksBearLives said:I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
I am all for hard work. That is what capitalism and free enterprise are all about. You are not a nice person for mocking and belittling a fellow poster (a veteran) who took the time to share his life experience. You almost sounded a little Donald Trumpish with your post.BrooksBearLives said:So I'm a bad person for thinking hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You and your Bud, Waco, seem to be a whole lot more about privilege than hard work. Reminds me of ole Barack's famous quote "you didn't build that!"BrooksBearLives said:I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
Please answer the question.
What is your definition of hard work?BrooksBearLives said:So I'm a bad person for thinking hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You and your Bud, Waco, seem to be a whole lot more about privilege than hard work. Reminds me of ole Barack's famous quote "you didn't build that!"BrooksBearLives said:I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
Please answer the question.
If you are referring to me, I appreciate the support, but I don't interpret anything as belittling me or pissing on me.RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:I am all for hard work. That is what capitalism and free enterprise are all about. You are not a nice person for mocking and belittling a fellow poster (a veteran) who took the time to share his life experience. You almost sounded a little Donald Trumpish with your post.BrooksBearLives said:So I'm a bad person for thinking hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You and your Bud, Waco, seem to be a whole lot more about privilege than hard work. Reminds me of ole Barack's famous quote "you didn't build that!"BrooksBearLives said:I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
Please answer the question.
I mocked him? Who?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:I am all for hard work. That is what capitalism and free enterprise are all about. You are not a nice person for mocking and belittling a fellow poster (a veteran) who took the time to share his life experience. You almost sounded a little Donald Trumpish with your post.BrooksBearLives said:So I'm a bad person for thinking hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You and your Bud, Waco, seem to be a whole lot more about privilege than hard work. Reminds me of ole Barack's famous quote "you didn't build that!"BrooksBearLives said:I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
Please answer the question.
redfish961 said:What is your definition of hard work?BrooksBearLives said:So I'm a bad person for thinking hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You and your Bud, Waco, seem to be a whole lot more about privilege than hard work. Reminds me of ole Barack's famous quote "you didn't build that!"BrooksBearLives said:I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
Please answer the question.
In addition, what is your definition of wealth?
I'm going to edit again...What is your definition of success?
Maybe we just have far different standards?
Sorry, I put this in the wrong post.redfish961 said:redfish961 said:What is your definition of hard work?BrooksBearLives said:So I'm a bad person for thinking hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You and your Bud, Waco, seem to be a whole lot more about privilege than hard work. Reminds me of ole Barack's famous quote "you didn't build that!"BrooksBearLives said:I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
Please answer the question.
In addition, what is your definition of wealth?
I'm going to edit again...What is your definition of success?
Maybe we just have far different standards?
Being white doesn't mean your life is awesome or that your life was perfect. It just means the color of your skin is probably not a reason it was rough.redfish961 said:If you are referring to me, I appreciate the support, but I don't interpret anything as belittling me or pissing on me.RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:I am all for hard work. That is what capitalism and free enterprise are all about. You are not a nice person for mocking and belittling a fellow poster (a veteran) who took the time to share his life experience. You almost sounded a little Donald Trumpish with your post.BrooksBearLives said:So I'm a bad person for thinking hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You and your Bud, Waco, seem to be a whole lot more about privilege than hard work. Reminds me of ole Barack's famous quote "you didn't build that!"BrooksBearLives said:I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
Please answer the question.
I served so we could go through this exercise and help preserve it.
Different opinions make the world go around and while I may not agree with all opinions, I can respect the right to have them. That does not mean I respect the opinion.
Perhaps it's my own life experience and it's difficult for me to understand how any American doesn't have an opportunity and an actual chance at a good life.
Perhaps I have been to enough countries to understand what we have versus other countries...Perhaps I've seen real poverty (and that is rare in the U.S. by comparison).
One thing I will never agree with is that we should take from those that put forth whatever effort necessary to succeed in order to subsidize those that don't.
Obviously things happen in people's lives that can be devastating and some of those things are nearly impossible to overcome, given the means...That's when support is needed and I would be happy to contribute in that scenario.
That's one thing, but if the thought is that everyone who happens to be born white has some sort stairway to heaven to success is sadly mistaken.
I was born in Oakland, Calif...Tell me what my advantage and my "white privilege" was. I suggest you do your homework and you will figure out, I was the minority and wasn't blessed with anything but birth.
I suppose that's why I just don't agree. There was nothing extraordinary about me other than I just wanted to do better and figured out a way to do it...My initial principle was just outwork everybody else, and I did.
As I said before, Obviously things happen in people's lives that can be devastating and some of those things are nearly impossible to overcome, given the means...That's when support is needed and I would be happy to contribute in that scenario.BrooksBearLives said:Being white doesn't mean your life is awesome or that your life was perfect. It just means the color of your skin is probably not a reason it was rough.redfish961 said:If you are referring to me, I appreciate the support, but I don't interpret anything as belittling me or pissing on me.RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:I am all for hard work. That is what capitalism and free enterprise are all about. You are not a nice person for mocking and belittling a fellow poster (a veteran) who took the time to share his life experience. You almost sounded a little Donald Trumpish with your post.BrooksBearLives said:So I'm a bad person for thinking hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You and your Bud, Waco, seem to be a whole lot more about privilege than hard work. Reminds me of ole Barack's famous quote "you didn't build that!"BrooksBearLives said:I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
Please answer the question.
I served so we could go through this exercise and help preserve it.
Different opinions make the world go around and while I may not agree with all opinions, I can respect the right to have them. That does not mean I respect the opinion.
Perhaps it's my own life experience and it's difficult for me to understand how any American doesn't have an opportunity and an actual chance at a good life.
Perhaps I have been to enough countries to understand what we have versus other countries...Perhaps I've seen real poverty (and that is rare in the U.S. by comparison).
One thing I will never agree with is that we should take from those that put forth whatever effort necessary to succeed in order to subsidize those that don't.
Obviously things happen in people's lives that can be devastating and some of those things are nearly impossible to overcome, given the means...That's when support is needed and I would be happy to contribute in that scenario.
That's one thing, but if the thought is that everyone who happens to be born white has some sort stairway to heaven to success is sadly mistaken.
I was born in Oakland, Calif...Tell me what my advantage and my "white privilege" was. I suggest you do your homework and you will figure out, I was the minority and wasn't blessed with anything but birth.
I suppose that's why I just don't agree. There was nothing extraordinary about me other than I just wanted to do better and figured out a way to do it...My initial principle was just outwork everybody else, and I did.
For those who argue against the idea of privilege, I use the example of able-bodied privilege. Do you think that your life isn't easier than someone in a wheelchair? Of course it is. You can use steps.
Does having legs that work make your life easy? No. Does it mean you're not a good person? Of course not. It just means that your life isn't ****ty because your legs work. That's privilege.
And no one is arguing that we "take away from those who have earned." We're just arguing that we all have a vested interest in having a world where there are steps and ramps. Because Stephen Hawking wouldn't have been able to do so much if we hadn't tried.
BrooksBearLives said:Your "America First" ideals quickly lose their meaning once you admit your America is only for people who agree with you.ShooterTX said:BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
OMG. You have no clue at all.
Take your Marx/Engels ******** somewhere else. If you love this communist crap, then why not just move to one of the $h1thole communist countries that agree with you. You have a nice selection of Cuba, China, North Korea, Venezuela,.... take your pic. I'm sure we could take up an offering for a one-way ticket for your sorry ass. We will also pay to have your citizenship revoked, so you will never come back to our capitalist society again. My goodness you are sick. If you continue to believe the crap you are spouting, then you will never amount to anything in life. Go away and take your anti-American, loser ******** with you.
You really think you've earned everything you have in your life?
not that it is relevant but nope- I married a Baylor gradWaco1947 said:Did you go to Baylor?Gruvin said:yes, I had parents. Started out in a two bedroom trailer in South Texas, shared a bedroom with siblings. Later i lived with my dad in Dallas area. Later moved in with my mom in central texas area. Went to church about a dozen times from birth to 21... half were funerals.Waco1947 said:So you had no parents? You simply showed up?Gruvin said:as a man of Christ, none of it is ever yours to claim sirWaco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
I am who i am by the grace of God and the choices I have made... i do my best to love my neighbor as Christ loves me, the one life you touch today could change the world tomorrow.
Got my first real paycheck at 16, everything since then has been on me...
BrooksBearLivesIn reply to Doc Holliday 2:04p, 6/14/19BrooksBearLives said:Being white doesn't mean your life is awesome or that your life was perfect. It just means the color of your skin is probably not a reason it was rough.redfish961 said:If you are referring to me, I appreciate the support, but I don't interpret anything as belittling me or pissing on me.RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:I am all for hard work. That is what capitalism and free enterprise are all about. You are not a nice person for mocking and belittling a fellow poster (a veteran) who took the time to share his life experience. You almost sounded a little Donald Trumpish with your post.BrooksBearLives said:So I'm a bad person for thinking hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You and your Bud, Waco, seem to be a whole lot more about privilege than hard work. Reminds me of ole Barack's famous quote "you didn't build that!"BrooksBearLives said:I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
Please answer the question.
I served so we could go through this exercise and help preserve it.
Different opinions make the world go around and while I may not agree with all opinions, I can respect the right to have them. That does not mean I respect the opinion.
Perhaps it's my own life experience and it's difficult for me to understand how any American doesn't have an opportunity and an actual chance at a good life.
Perhaps I have been to enough countries to understand what we have versus other countries...Perhaps I've seen real poverty (and that is rare in the U.S. by comparison).
One thing I will never agree with is that we should take from those that put forth whatever effort necessary to succeed in order to subsidize those that don't.
Obviously things happen in people's lives that can be devastating and some of those things are nearly impossible to overcome, given the means...That's when support is needed and I would be happy to contribute in that scenario.
That's one thing, but if the thought is that everyone who happens to be born white has some sort stairway to heaven to success is sadly mistaken.
I was born in Oakland, Calif...Tell me what my advantage and my "white privilege" was. I suggest you do your homework and you will figure out, I was the minority and wasn't blessed with anything but birth.
I suppose that's why I just don't agree. There was nothing extraordinary about me other than I just wanted to do better and figured out a way to do it...My initial principle was just outwork everybody else, and I did.
For those who argue against the idea of privilege, I use the example of able-bodied privilege. Do you think that your life isn't easier than someone in a wheelchair? Of course it is. You can use steps.
Does having legs that work make your life easy? No. Does it mean you're not a good person? Of course not. It just means that your life isn't ****ty because your legs work. That's privilege.
And no one is arguing that we "take away from those who have earned." We're just arguing that we all have a vested interest in having a world where there are steps and ramps. Because Stephen Hawking wouldn't have been able to do so much if we hadn't tried.
redfish961 said:As I said before, Obviously things happen in people's lives that can be devastating and some of those things are nearly impossible to overcome, given the means...That's when support is needed and I would be happy to contribute in that scenario.BrooksBearLives said:Being white doesn't mean your life is awesome or that your life was perfect. It just means the color of your skin is probably not a reason it was rough.redfish961 said:If you are referring to me, I appreciate the support, but I don't interpret anything as belittling me or pissing on me.RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:I am all for hard work. That is what capitalism and free enterprise are all about. You are not a nice person for mocking and belittling a fellow poster (a veteran) who took the time to share his life experience. You almost sounded a little Donald Trumpish with your post.BrooksBearLives said:So I'm a bad person for thinking hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You and your Bud, Waco, seem to be a whole lot more about privilege than hard work. Reminds me of ole Barack's famous quote "you didn't build that!"BrooksBearLives said:I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
Please answer the question.
I served so we could go through this exercise and help preserve it.
Different opinions make the world go around and while I may not agree with all opinions, I can respect the right to have them. That does not mean I respect the opinion.
Perhaps it's my own life experience and it's difficult for me to understand how any American doesn't have an opportunity and an actual chance at a good life.
Perhaps I have been to enough countries to understand what we have versus other countries...Perhaps I've seen real poverty (and that is rare in the U.S. by comparison).
One thing I will never agree with is that we should take from those that put forth whatever effort necessary to succeed in order to subsidize those that don't.
Obviously things happen in people's lives that can be devastating and some of those things are nearly impossible to overcome, given the means...That's when support is needed and I would be happy to contribute in that scenario.
That's one thing, but if the thought is that everyone who happens to be born white has some sort stairway to heaven to success is sadly mistaken.
I was born in Oakland, Calif...Tell me what my advantage and my "white privilege" was. I suggest you do your homework and you will figure out, I was the minority and wasn't blessed with anything but birth.
I suppose that's why I just don't agree. There was nothing extraordinary about me other than I just wanted to do better and figured out a way to do it...My initial principle was just outwork everybody else, and I did.
For those who argue against the idea of privilege, I use the example of able-bodied privilege. Do you think that your life isn't easier than someone in a wheelchair? Of course it is. You can use steps.
Does having legs that work make your life easy? No. Does it mean you're not a good person? Of course not. It just means that your life isn't ****ty because your legs work. That's privilege.
And no one is arguing that we "take away from those who have earned." We're just arguing that we all have a vested interest in having a world where there are steps and ramps. Because Stephen Hawking wouldn't have been able to do so much if we hadn't tried.
I understand some are disadvantaged and that certainly makes things much harsher due to being handicapped...I'm all in there.
What I don't understand are those that aren't and then make excuses.
So the color of my skin is a reason it wasn't rough? In Oakland? Are you kidding me?
I suppose I have always looked at color as a nonfactor...Maybe we all should... No, we all should.
Bruce Leroy said:BrooksBearLivesIn reply to Doc Holliday 2:04p, 6/14/19BrooksBearLives said:Being white doesn't mean your life is awesome or that your life was perfect. It just means the color of your skin is probably not a reason it was rough.redfish961 said:If you are referring to me, I appreciate the support, but I don't interpret anything as belittling me or pissing on me.RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:I am all for hard work. That is what capitalism and free enterprise are all about. You are not a nice person for mocking and belittling a fellow poster (a veteran) who took the time to share his life experience. You almost sounded a little Donald Trumpish with your post.BrooksBearLives said:So I'm a bad person for thinking hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You and your Bud, Waco, seem to be a whole lot more about privilege than hard work. Reminds me of ole Barack's famous quote "you didn't build that!"BrooksBearLives said:I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?RD2WINAGNBEAR86 said:You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
Please answer the question.
I served so we could go through this exercise and help preserve it.
Different opinions make the world go around and while I may not agree with all opinions, I can respect the right to have them. That does not mean I respect the opinion.
Perhaps it's my own life experience and it's difficult for me to understand how any American doesn't have an opportunity and an actual chance at a good life.
Perhaps I have been to enough countries to understand what we have versus other countries...Perhaps I've seen real poverty (and that is rare in the U.S. by comparison).
One thing I will never agree with is that we should take from those that put forth whatever effort necessary to succeed in order to subsidize those that don't.
Obviously things happen in people's lives that can be devastating and some of those things are nearly impossible to overcome, given the means...That's when support is needed and I would be happy to contribute in that scenario.
That's one thing, but if the thought is that everyone who happens to be born white has some sort stairway to heaven to success is sadly mistaken.
I was born in Oakland, Calif...Tell me what my advantage and my "white privilege" was. I suggest you do your homework and you will figure out, I was the minority and wasn't blessed with anything but birth.
I suppose that's why I just don't agree. There was nothing extraordinary about me other than I just wanted to do better and figured out a way to do it...My initial principle was just outwork everybody else, and I did.
For those who argue against the idea of privilege, I use the example of able-bodied privilege. Do you think that your life isn't easier than someone in a wheelchair? Of course it is. You can use steps.
Does having legs that work make your life easy? No. Does it mean you're not a good person? Of course not. It just means that your life isn't ****ty because your legs work. That's privilege.
And no one is arguing that we "take away from those who have earned." We're just arguing that we all have a vested interest in having a world where there are steps and ramps. Because Stephen Hawking wouldn't have been able to do so much if we hadn't tried.
"And wealth concentration ABSOLUTELY factors into lack of economic mobility. With money, is power. And people don't give up power willingly. They use that paper to concentrate more power and wealth."
ShooterTX said:BrooksBearLives said:Your "America First" ideals quickly lose their meaning once you admit your America is only for people who agree with you.ShooterTX said:BrooksBearLives said:bearassnekkid said:I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?BrooksBearLives said:redfish961 said:And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.Waco1947 said:Excuses? I'm not following you.Canada2017 said:Waco1947 said:
Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
OMG. You have no clue at all.
Take your Marx/Engels ******** somewhere else. If you love this communist crap, then why not just move to one of the $h1thole communist countries that agree with you. You have a nice selection of Cuba, China, North Korea, Venezuela,.... take your pic. I'm sure we could take up an offering for a one-way ticket for your sorry ass. We will also pay to have your citizenship revoked, so you will never come back to our capitalist society again. My goodness you are sick. If you continue to believe the crap you are spouting, then you will never amount to anything in life. Go away and take your anti-American, loser ******** with you.
You really think you've earned everything you have in your life?
YES! What is wrong with you? You must be a millennial or generation Z. Have you ever had a real job?
Whatever I was given, was earned by my parents or my grandparents. In my family history, it doesn't go beyond my grandparents. They started with nothing.
In my lifetime, I have been broke 3 times. I had to earn everything back. Are you saying that I was given everything I currently have? That I earned nothing since the last time I was broke? That is absurd.
And yes... you are a communist. You are trying to divide people by class, and then pit them against each other. It is classic Marxism.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own. - well, you are definitely a big hairy ***** if you believe that crap! A real man earns a living for himself and his family through hard work and tough choices. Your way of thinking is toxic and anti-American, in the extreme. If no one has earned anything, then that means they don't have a right to what they have... again, this is Marxism.
You are a really, really sick person.
LIB,MR BEARS said:
BBL said Color IS a factor, though. Are we REALLY trying to argue it isn't? Look at incarceration rates alone. Race plays a role. Especially when you consider how incarceration's effects cascade through families (and has since Jim Crow).
Regarding incarceration rates, is it race or is it income level that plays the more important role?
Being white doesn't buy good legal representation. Money does that.
I've not looked at any stats. I'm just spit-ballin' . But, the question still stands.
LIB,MR BEARS said:
BBL said Color IS a factor, though. Are we REALLY trying to argue it isn't? Look at incarceration rates alone. Race plays a role. Especially when you consider how incarceration's effects cascade through families (and has since Jim Crow).
Regarding incarceration rates, is it race or is it income level that plays the more important role?
Being white doesn't buy good legal representation. Money does that.
I've not looked at any stats. I'm just spit-ballin' . But, the question still stands.
thanks to the slippery slope of no fault divorcesYoakDaddy said:LIB,MR BEARS said:
BBL said Color IS a factor, though. Are we REALLY trying to argue it isn't? Look at incarceration rates alone. Race plays a role. Especially when you consider how incarceration's effects cascade through families (and has since Jim Crow).
Regarding incarceration rates, is it race or is it income level that plays the more important role?
Being white doesn't buy good legal representation. Money does that.
I've not looked at any stats. I'm just spit-ballin' . But, the question still stands.
It's more like single-parent home...the last stat I saw was from 2015 and that 90+% of Texas inmates were from single-parent homes.
LIB,MR BEARS said:thanks to the slippery slope of no fault divorcesYoakDaddy said:LIB,MR BEARS said:
BBL said Color IS a factor, though. Are we REALLY trying to argue it isn't? Look at incarceration rates alone. Race plays a role. Especially when you consider how incarceration's effects cascade through families (and has since Jim Crow).
Regarding incarceration rates, is it race or is it income level that plays the more important role?
Being white doesn't buy good legal representation. Money does that.
I've not looked at any stats. I'm just spit-ballin' . But, the question still stands.
It's more like single-parent home...the last stat I saw was from 2015 and that 90+% of Texas inmates were from single-parent homes.