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Good Lord you are accident of birth and think you hit a triple.
Good grief....you certainly have your excuses all figured out.
Excuses? I'm not following you.
90% of Who I am and what I have is being born white, Methodist, in the USA, to good parents. None of my success is mine to claim.
And that's it...You attribute your "success" to being lucky and riding on the coat tails of others. No wonder you feel guilty and entitled.
Some of us decided to forge our own path, regardless of the circumstances thrown our way and the obstacles we had to overcome.
When you ride coat tails and don't put in the effort....You get coat tails.
It's not hard to understand.
I've been blessed beyond belief. I was born to amazing parents who loved me and told me I could do anything, but also pushed me to actually do it.
They modeled love for each other and love for me. My father worked a ****ty job because it had good insurance -because as a cancer survivor, i needed it.
I'm pretty blessed with intelligence. I love reading and questioning everything.
Every time I've worked hard, it has paid off. Every time.
That's not the case with a LOT of people. I see it every day. I work my ass off every day. I work with my hands and my mind. I work hard to serve others.
But it's all a blessing. I haven't really EARNED any of it. That's an illusion.
I'm glad you're proud. Sounds like you have a lot to be proud of. You've accomplished a lot. But that's not the case for everyone.
Trump says he's a self-made man. Do you think he's right?
I see. So the only people who can "earn" it are those born poor or with no parents or with darker skin pigment? Sound about right?
You don't read. You seriously don't read.
NO ONE earns it.
I don't understand the weird need for some people to impress everyone with their life story. They sniff their own farts and invent these Horatio Alger stories for themselves because they aren't really a success if they didn't do everything themselves.
You're not "a man" if you think you've done everything on your own.
You're wrong. And you're less of a man if you think that.
This idea that we HAVE to be the hero of every story is childish and small. My father raised me to never trust a man of woman who is always the hero of their own story. Because they lack humility or any self awareness.
It's a very strange thing to get angry and insist you have earned everything you have.
As if your life wouldn't have been harder if you'd been born in a different country. Or without legs. Or the ability to see.
You, Sir, are just not a very nice person. We will leave it at that.
I'm not a nice person because I think hard work should pay off?
You and your Bud, Waco, seem to be a whole lot more about privilege than hard work. Reminds me of ole Barack's famous quote "you didn't build that!"
So I'm a bad person for thinking hard work should pay off?
Please answer the question.
I am all for hard work. That is what capitalism and free enterprise are all about. You are not a nice person for mocking and belittling a fellow poster (a veteran) who took the time to share his life experience. You almost sounded a little Donald Trumpish with your post.
If you are referring to me, I appreciate the support, but I don't interpret anything as belittling me or pissing on me.
I served so we could go through this exercise and help preserve it.
Different opinions make the world go around and while I may not agree with all opinions, I can respect the right to have them. That does not mean I respect the opinion.
Perhaps it's my own life experience and it's difficult for me to understand how any American doesn't have an opportunity and an actual chance at a good life.
Perhaps I have been to enough countries to understand what we have versus other countries...Perhaps I've seen real poverty (and that is rare in the U.S. by comparison).
One thing I will never agree with is that we should take from those that put forth whatever effort necessary to succeed in order to subsidize those that don't.
Obviously things happen in people's lives that can be devastating and some of those things are nearly impossible to overcome, given the means...That's when support is needed and I would be happy to contribute in that scenario.
That's one thing, but if the thought is that everyone who happens to be born white has some sort stairway to heaven to success is sadly mistaken.
I was born in Oakland, Calif...Tell me what my advantage and my "white privilege" was. I suggest you do your homework and you will figure out, I was the minority and wasn't blessed with anything but birth.
I suppose that's why I just don't agree. There was nothing extraordinary about me other than I just wanted to do better and figured out a way to do it...My initial principle was just outwork everybody else, and I did.
Being white doesn't mean your life is awesome or that your life was perfect. It just means the color of your skin is probably not a reason it was rough.
For those who argue against the idea of privilege, I use the example of able-bodied privilege. Do you think that your life isn't easier than someone in a wheelchair? Of course it is. You can use steps.
Does having legs that work make your life easy? No. Does it mean you're not a good person? Of course not. It just means that your life isn't ****ty because your legs work. That's privilege.
And no one is arguing that we "take away from those who have earned." We're just arguing that we all have a vested interest in having a world where there are steps and ramps. Because Stephen Hawking wouldn't have been able to do so much if we hadn't tried.
BrooksBearLivesIn reply to Doc Holliday 2:04p, 6/14/19
"And wealth concentration ABSOLUTELY factors into lack of economic mobility. With money, is power. And people don't give up power willingly. They use that paper to concentrate more power and wealth."
Where is the lie? You're taking that out of context, which is pretty dishonest.
I was saying that steps need to be taken to allow opportunity and address the wealth gap. If we don't, it won't work out well. We were having an entire conversation about it and you pull that quote. Shame on you.
I'm for market based approaches.
I don't feel shame and nothing I posted was dishonest. It was your quote. I didn't state a opinion on the matter.
As you told another poster earlier.
BrooksBearLivesIn reply to ScottS 1:47p, 6/14/19
"So you're a mind-reader now?
Why bother going on a message board if you already know what everyone is going to say?"
Regarding above.
What are the market based steps you would like to see implemented? I am not aware of you posting any in this specific discussion. If you did please direct me to where I may have missed it.
If you haven't posted any steps a list would be helpful for a "conversation"?
Listen, I've been responding to a lot of different people When they make specific points, I'll respond. But when people start asking me to do their homework for them, I check out. Either do the reading or don't.
The fact that you don't feel shame isn't exactly the statement you think it is.
BrooksBearLivesIn reply to Doc Holliday 10:04a
"Then another serious adult will respond in kind. Either agreeing, disagreeing, or
asking questions about the first adult's methodology."Here is "my homework" on what on points have you made to address the wealth gap.
BrooksBearLivesIn reply to RD2WINAGNBEAR86 11:14p, 6/13/19
"But it's not perfect. Right now, many people are fully "employed" and still poor. That's not right."
BrooksBearLives 11:22p, 6/13/19
"Which this squares a lot of what I see. That there are a LOT of people struggling. I know people losing farms and really in a rough spot."
BrooksBearLivesIn reply to Bruce Leroy 12:31p, 6/14/19
"That's not right. If someone is industrious and hard-working and trying, they shouldn't be poor. Not in a meritocracy."
Doc HollidayIn reply to BrooksBearLives 10:24a, 6/14/19
Have any solutions to make the economy boom BBL?
You no response.BrooksBearLivesIn reply to Doc Holliday 12:58p, 6/14/19
"You're saying that wealth disparity isn't a thing? It has grown exponentially. This is a fact."
BrooksBearLivesIn reply to redfish961 4:05p, 6/17/19
"We're just arguing that we all have a vested interest in having a world where there are steps
and ramps. Because Stephen Hawking wouldn't have been able to do so much if we hadn't tried."
BrooksBearLivesIn reply to LIB,MR BEARS 12:06a, 6/18/19
"Things will never be perfect. But we can work on it."
Based on above here was my previous Direct question to you"What are the market based steps you would like to see implemented? I am not aware of you posting any in this specific discussion. If you did please direct me to where I may have missed it.
If you haven't posted any steps a list would be helpful for a "conversation"?"
Your Response"Listen, I've been responding to a lot of different people .When they make specific points, I'll respond. But when people start asking me to do their homework for them, I check out. Either do the reading or don't."
Now that I have done "my homework". What are the market based steps you would like to see implemented?