First, I feel guilty criticizing churches. At best, it feels a little ******y and at worst it has divided nations and led to civil wars. That being said, the TDS gets old, so curious everyone's thoughts. I am also convicted by a friend's post about Bonhoeffer's Cost of Discipleship and his concept of cheap grace.

My family has found a great church home in many ways. It is the stereotypical, suburban video-franchise church and follows the usual evangelical accoutrements - it's right out of the Evangelical Playbook.

That being said, here are things that we really like about the church that may not be consistent with other cookie-cutter churches we have attended.
1. Worship - yes, same silly rock band and four singers jumping, but the "band" does repeat songs regularly so we can get to know some modern worship songs
2. Politics - the church is from a party perspective apolitical and is theologically orthodox but does put a lot of effort into mission (domestic and international), reconciliation, and justice
3. The Pastor is a gifted preacher that shares genuine messages that move our hearts

My complaints ... forgive if simple minded ...

1. I am not a fan of the video-franchise church; I think the NT "church planting" model is preferred for myriad reasons (happy to discuss in more detail if anyone cares)

2. The church is hyper-individualistic ... communion - which to its credit is done more frequently than many evangelical churches - is done in individual packets ... sort of defeats the spirit of communion

3. The church really promotes online service - this is great for folks that are homebound or traveling, but I think the message should be "find a local church home and watch us too for extra, mid-week support"

4. The church cancelled service the Sunday before and after Christmas ... I appreciate the burden Christmas and Easter can be on the staff, but this is a large church with multiple campuses and staff members to support ... some folks rely on weekly service for support and community

Not unique to this church, but I do wish there was more of an order of worship to evangelical churches like the old SBC ... I mean we did not even read the Christmas Story during the Christmas service.

Anyway, curious everyone's thoughts ... realize much of worship since the Psalms is man-made and we all have opinions. Wish there was a way to keep the best of innovation and the best of the past.

Sounds like the Church I go to

And with the same positives and negatives

The communion condiment packet thing we do is particularly funny

I've heard of the packets and wondered if we would serve them at some point. Not yet. Is that a result of Covid?

Redbrickbear said:

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Sounds like the Church I go to

And with the same positives and negatives

The communion condiment packet thing we do is particularly funny

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LOL. Literally the same ones ...

I just kind of want to ask ... you know what "communion" means in the Greek, right? LOL.

What's weird too is the church offers each week to anyone that wants to talk it solo ... I'm sort of like, did anyone here go to seminary?

Not the biggest fan of the satellite thing either though my church has that and we attend the satellite.

Our campus is in the far suburbs. We have a pretty young congregation as housing is a bit more affordable out here.

The info I have is that our campus doesn't support itself financially. Lots of young people haven't started consistently tithing. The main campus provides some financial support. It may be a necessary part of the satellite model. Still, I'd be surprised if there was ever a clean break. I suspect are some economies of scale with the satellite model.

I never thought I'd be attending a "megachurch." But it was nearby and provided so many great activities for our kids. Sure there are some downsides but there are a ton of positives. Love our church and our pastor.

I think as long as the Word is being taught that every church serves a purpose. Some are drawn to the really small church, some to the megachurch and some to churches in between. Whichever church will attract someone and get them to grow closer to Christ is the church I like.

Ripping a church that does preach the Word because it doesn't fit your view of the ideal church is more a reflection of you rather than the church.

Harrison Bergeron said:

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Redbrickbear said:

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Sounds like the Church I go to

And with the same positives and negatives

The communion condiment packet thing we do is particularly funny

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LOL. Literally the same ones ...

I just kind of want to ask ... you know what "communion" means in the Greek, right? LOL.

What's weird too is the church offers each week to anyone that wants to talk it solo ... I'm sort of like, did anyone here go to seminary?

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Also funny because it was an early job/task of the Deacons to literally guard the doors to the Church building and not admit people to communion who were not authorized to partake

[The fourth-century Apostolic Constitutions instruct deacons to guard the door during the service and to maintain order among those attending the services.]

midgett said:

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Ripping a church that does preach the Word because it doesn't fit your view of the ideal church is more a reflection of you rather than the church.

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1. You're correct.
2. I think "ripping" is a little snowflake for wanting a discussion about orthopraxy.

Maybe a question for you I would pose is ... church plants have required financial support from the mother church since Acts.

Why do you think churches moved away from planting churches to franchises? Do you think this better serves the body?

Harrison Bergeron said:

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midgett said:

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Ripping a church that does preach the Word because it doesn't fit your view of the ideal church is more a reflection of you rather than the church.

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1. You're correct.
2. I think "ripping" is a little snowflake for wanting a discussion about orthopraxy.

Maybe a question for you I would pose is ... church plants have required financial support from the mother church since Acts.

Why do you think churches moved away from planting churches to franchises? Do you think this better serves the body?

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The correct answer for me is I don't know.

I know our church has done several church plants. So we've done both.

Some speculation on satellites. I have been amazed and almost dumbfounded when I hear how far members drive to the main campus. We had a member who drove 100 miles each way every week! There's a possibility the church sees where members are living and feel like it's a better way to serve.

I remember when the satellite I'm at was initiated. I silently chuckled at the proposed size. Way too big. Um, now I wonder why they didn't think bigger!

I will also add I'm not a fan of a satellite that pipes in the pastor of the main campus. Each should have their own pastor and ministers.

Harrison Bergeron said:

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Anyway, curious everyone's thoughts ... realize much of worship since the Psalms is man-made and we all have opinions. Wish there was a way to keep the best of innovation and the best of the past.

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Orthopraxy has entered the chat.

Innovation *is* the problem. There is no best of it. What you end up in is a perpeual cycle cultural compromise in which the faith once delivered to the saints is diluted to the point of becoming moralistic therapeutic deism.

Ask yourself, if Saint Paul was to walk into your service, would he recognize the worship portion of the service as a Christian? The communion service at all? Or would he think he was in some pagan temple on Mars Hill?