TexasScientist said:
Oldbear83 said:
TexasScientist said:
What if your father is abuses your mother? What if your father is violent alcoholic?
Do you stand around and let it happen? Do you say anything to get him help?
And what proportion of fathers are 'violent alcoholics'? Is that your excuse for why so many families are dysfunctional?
Of course you don't. You stop it and or you call the law enforcement - but that's not honoring him.
Do you speak in tongues? Do you pick up and handle snakes?
First, "honoring" your father and mother
includes helping them where they need assistance. In some cases that means doing chores around the house even after you move out, but it also means protecting the integrity of the family. There is a passage in the book of
Genesis where Noah got drunk, and two of his sons kept him safe from embarrassment and humiliation. That implies they also prevented Noah from doing things he might regret.
Being a good child includes protecting your parent even from himself if needed. You honor the man he wants to be, you don't dump him as soon as you find some excuse to run.
As for speaking in tongues and handling snakes, you really need to go look at the specific context of those verses. Technically, I have done both, but in the case of tongues it was in the ecstasy of devotion which an unbeliever would not understand and I therefore will not discuss it here anymore than you would discuss intimacy with your wife in public. In the case of handling snakes, it's a promise given to the apostles sent on mission and I believe it. My own handling of snakes is limited to the time I worked in a pet store, but I did learn a lot about what provokes attacks from snakes; most of them only strike out of fear or in defense. If you are observant you can handle most snakes without fear of being bit, but that was not what the verse was about. Also, for the record the practice of deliberately handling snakes to see if God protects you is putting God to the test, which is repeatedly denounced in scripture and has no place in a worship service.