Apparently these additional documents which Catholics access combined with the interpretations of past and current church teachings and leaders play an influential part in the formation of their core religious beliefs. Since many of us have formed ours based on different sources and not exposed to their sources, the likelihood hood of having a sincere, and open minded discussion, would appear to be based upon the openness or lack thereof of both sides.
Below is a superficial primer of their perspective of Mary. Perhaps it will help contribute to a civil conversation. (Perhaps)
Catholics do not actually worship Mary, but rather venerate (honor) her based on specific scriptural passages that highlight her unique, God-given role in salvation history.
In Catholic theology, true adoration or worship (latria) belongs to God alone (Father, Son, and Holy Spirit). The high honor given to Mary (hyperdulia) is rooted in her relationship with Christ and several key Bible verses.
Key Biblical Passages for Marian Veneration
* Luke 1:28: The angel Gabriel addresses Mary as "full of grace" (or "favored one"). Catholics see this as proof that God filled her with a unique abundance of divine life.
* Luke 1:43: Elizabeth is filled with the Holy Spirit and calls Mary the "mother of my Lord," acknowledging her status as the Mother of God (the Incarnate Christ).
* Luke 1:48: Mary proclaims in her song of praise (the Magnificat) that "all generations will call me blessed." Catholics view their ongoing honor for Mary as fulfilling this biblical prophecy.
* John 2:1-11: At the wedding at Cana, Mary intercedes on behalf of the hosts who ran out of wine. Jesus listens to her request and performs His first public miracle, demonstrating her ongoing role as an intercessor who brings human needs to Christ.
* John 19:26-27: From the cross, Jesus tells the beloved disciple, "Behold, your mother." Catholics interpret this as Jesus giving Mary to all Christians as a spiritual mother.